Guys, would you give an average looking girl a chance if she were to approach you first and make first move?

[Some_Goof]

[Bananaman177]

First of all, you don't know what I consider average. I often think that girls who others deem plain are actually more attractive than some of these models and actresses and pop stars that everybody else says is so hot. I find Kristen Schaal to be prettier than Scarlet Johanson. I might be weird, but lots of guys are weird, and all are weird differently from me and from each other. You don't know how you look to a guy, maybe every other guy and girl treats you like you're ugly, but this one guy thinks you're super cute, but he assumes you wouldn't be interested in a guy like him, so he never approaches. You'll never know how many guys you walked past who thought you were gorgeous when you felt ugly, or who thought you were ugly when you felt gorgeous. You don't have any idea what you look like on HIS beauty scale, because it's unique to him and not like any other guy.

Second of all, yes, if a girl had the sack to ask me like a fucking adult asks for what they want, I would think of her as an adult and take anything she had to say seriously. If she plays games where I'm supposed to read her fucking mind and that unlocks the key to her heart, I know that she's a fucking toddler in a grown up body and I don't take her seriously at all.

A lot of women are starving for male attention and affection and validation and they have no idea why and they think it's because "I must be ugly, wahh!" and it has literally nothing to do with their looks at all, it's that they did everything that was humanly possible to teach the last two generations of men NOT to approach women, because it could be sexual harassment.

It's like asking a comedian to go tell jokes, but he's not allowed to offend ANYBODY in the audience, or he goes to jail. It's just not possible, you can't tell a good joke without taking a chance at telling a bad one. Approaching women is the same. What one woman finds cute, another finds creepy. And the problem is that you've made annoying or offending or creeping out women practically fucking illegal. Well guess what, if you do that, guess what men will stop doing? They'll stop taking a chance on possibly offending some woman with a giant feminist man-hating chip on her shoulder, and getting accused of sexual harassment and put on a list of sexual predators.

And you think it's a joke and you think that never really happens, but yes it fucking does and it's not a joke and you can keep ignoring this problem all you want, but good luck ignoring the consequences:

[DannyDeNeato]

When someone has the guts to approach me and ask me out, that would definitely catch my interest.

Looks aren't all that important, it is but not as much as you think. So why not give the girl a chance and get to know her? You'd never know wether you have things in common or not. Maybe I would get to know her better or take it to the next step.

If the guy you're after has some form of empathy and morals (everybody does), i'd go for it.

Good luck ✌

[Mh1999]

Aren't most girls average lol they would stay single if they won't.

[whenthedankhitsig]

Definetily, doing so right now actually. I wasn’t particularely attracted to this girl, but she starts a lot of conversations, asks questions and is overall just really flirty with me. I really appriciate this and I wouldn’t mind dating her, even if there are more beautiful women around

[ecfresh]

Yes. Physical appearance forms our gut reaction on someone because we can’t connect to anything else. If she walked up to me and engaged in conversation I would be present in the moment and through our interaction either find points of connection or counterpoints.

I would always encourage a woman to approach and talk to someone they wanted to instead of playing the waiting game.

[OlderAndWiser]

Most of the people in the world are average and they find partners for long term relationships. There is nothing wrong with average. Most of my partners have been average and not exceptional in terms of their appearance.

[Riggers]

Fucking obviously they would... a lot of guys literally pay 2/10 prostitutes and escorts. So if you’re a 6/10 and offering yourself for free then you’re fucking Golden.

[Lliam]

Maybe. It depends on how "average looking" she was, but also on her personality. I'll also say that I like it when women show assertiveness. It shouldn't always be up to the guy to make the first move and risk rejection.

[BirdFan360]

As long as we strive to become each other's dream matches over time. Continuous improvement can keep the 'flame' alive forever. When one side stops trying, the flame may die. (I just simplified relationships as a whole. Your welcome internet (Jokes))

[Logorithim]

Absolutely. I once went on a date with an unattractive girl because she took the initiative and i thought she should be rewarded for that. Turned out to be a great date.

[MackToday]

If I found her appealing. It's not like checking a girl out on the street where all she has to be is pretty, it's more serious than that.

[pierre7i]

Yes, absolutely I would, not only would I be flattered but I think it'd be very cute of her to do that

[Lord_Ateag]

Of course! Doesn't matter if she's a bitch or a sweetheart. Key word is "chance". This is America, damn it, the Land of Opportunity! I'm talking like I'm some big shot here lol

[AynonOMouse]

Sure as long as I was at least moderately attracted to her. There has to be at least some attraction. Then I'd go out with her to get to know her and see what we have in common.

[ImagineSketchy]

I want to say at least 90% of single heterosexual men would be fine with this.

[Cammy137]

Certainly. Someone being "average looking" isn't a bad thing.

[up_64]

What's average looking? Men have different standards. Also I'd probably reject her because I'm only attracted to one person at a time and that place is currently occupied.

[Drumlin2001]

If her personality seemed nice then yeah. Though maybe 20 is a little young

[sasukeuchiha7]

Well I'm not interested in dating but if I was I'd give her a chance

[brandito1st]

Yes unless im taken or 100%not ready for a relationship

[AkshiJanjua]

ofcourse even the hottest guys would considering she has an attractive personality

[real8truth]

Depends on what you feel "average" is.

[Some_Goof]

I mean someone who you're not attracted to on the first glance, would you go out with her if she asks you out?

[Secret6620]

Awwww great question and pic👍