Why does a guy sometimes continuously dates me for a week and sometimes not ask me out for five or six days?

[Anonymous]

Last week, we spent 6 days together. And from Last Friday, he didn’t ask me out until now.

[Hulk_kitty]

A couple things come to mind, you are either a side chick, he is busy with other things, or he get fed up with making all the arrangements.

But if there is a pattern to his behaviour, it means he just treating you casually, even if your making the effort with him, move on I would suggest.

[Hulk_kitty]

All I am going to say, If he is not making much of an effort with you, and just treating you casually, move on. Don't chase people, they will just put you on pedestal.

[Asker]

Yea we are casual. I am also seeing other guys. Just today I feel like maybe I can see him then I found that tho he sent me messages but didn’t ask me out since last Saturday. Side chick, maybe. But he always calls me after he is drunk and always asks me if I like him or not. But I guess he might also do the same thing to other girls.

[Hulk_kitty]

Sorry I don't know him, its very hard to judge someone. Only you can make that decision on him. But if you are casual, don't worry about it. If you were in a relationship, then that would be a concerning factor.

[FilmGuy93]

He has a life to live... he hangs out with you, then goes to live his life, then comes back to see you again.

[Asker]

Yea I also live like that. I have my business to do during weekdays. And usually I see people during weekends.

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah, there you go; he's got the same kind of thing going on. That distance gives y'all something more to talk about the next time you meet up.

[RavVid]

Low finances or busy at work?

[KrakenAttackin]

Because you are a side chick.

[Asker]

Yea maybe, I agree