Why do men reject good women , women?

Question

Who are educated, smart, can holding a job for another girl who doesn't have that?

ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

I hear so many women with your description talk about this, and it's kind of surprising to me and I'm conflicted on it honestly. You may consider yourself educated, smart, and having a good job, but are you also snobby, arrogant about your successes, unapproachable, cold towards men, and not having much personality? Because this turns a lot of men off too.

This isn't to say men are right to go after low life women with no job, cuz I'm not into those either, but a woman who feels like she's "strong and independent" and educated and making money isn't exactly appealing either. A man needs more than that in a woman and a relationship. Does she have personality? Is she creative? Is she feminine inside and not just outside? Does she have a good heart? How does she behave with him alone vs. with him in front of others? Things like that.

AaronKrieger · Accepted Answer

Same reason women reject guys who are good men. You need more than just being nice and loyal to be with someone. I have turned away girls I thought would be a good partner on paper during high school, but there was no chemistry. Good qualities 100% help, as there's less red flags, but you need to have a connection with someone to date them.

Although, based on what I have heard - middle aged people tend to care less about that and just want a good partner even if they do not connect very well. So, perhaps that is a thing that comes with age.

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

Being educated and having a high paying job doesn't make a woman good, and most men don't care about those things anyway. Why do some women chase after men who don't want them? Why do some women chase after worthless men in general? The answer to all of these questions and glaringly obviously.

JustMeL120 · Accepted Answer

Cuz most men are shallow. They look at the girls body smile will she be a nice extra piece of furniture in their well kept house. Thats it

Summeroflove · Answer

Well. The way I judge a good person maybe is a bit different. I think the inside counts best.

I don’t know though. I think some guys want to just have girls to have sex with. Then wonder why none of the good ones want him…. When he rejected them. When he dumped them for refusing sex. When they ran because they seen him as a man whore

Avicenna · Answer

Truth is, guys don't, unless they have lots of options and don't have to settle down.

cuteangelprincess · Answer

Might sound generic but I think its because men want to feel needed. If u show a man you can live without him, he would feel really small and unneeded. They feed their ego adn feel really good about themselves if they know theyve got what ti takes to tale care of a woman. Example, pay her rent, buy her stuff etc. Thats my opinion on it as a woman, take it with a grain of salt :)

Berethor · Answer

Those things are not what men are looking for, a good woman is fertile, pretty and not a ho.

DubiousIntentions · Answer

One certainly wonders about such things. Guys want sluts, not good and Godly women. Whatever.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Good woman doesn't equal "educated, smart, can holding a job". In fact that's usually a bad woman for a relationship. I don't know why y'all women think men want that or it's so great. We care about you being pleasant and taking care of a home and being more sexually innocent. That's more in line with what makes a good woman.

Anonymous · Answer

This is a bitter pill to swallow, but it’s the truth.

Most men don’t give a damn about your career, what you do for a job, any of that hat. Are you attractive, are you fun to be around, and are you loyal?

We don’t care about how skilled you are at your job. We just don’t want you to be miserable at what you’re doing. Nothing more. And we don’t want to hear about all the other people you work with that you hate.

Billlewis · Answer

In my case, it's probably because I'm only interested in a woman who treats me like shit and won't give me the time of day.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

What goes around comes around & unfortunately rejecting does happen.  Men reject good women & women reject good guys.

samael_kmarty · Answer

I don't reject anyone, i am the only one who is getting rejected.
But from my perspective men and women have stopped approaching to each other.
Women have started making fun of the person who is asking out.

lightbulb27 · Answer

sure, attraction isn't all about success. dating skills, social skills are critical.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Boredom, generally feeling like we can't be ourselves around her.

TheFlak38 · Answer

educated, smart, successful = a repulsive bitch that makes me flee for my life.  Every fucking time.

In_Trance · Answer

Good is a subjective term.  Example; none of the things you mentioned are perceived as good by a guy who rejects a woman that possesses them

Anonymous · Answer

Today's women have a fundamental lack of understanding of what it means to be a "good woman" in men's eyes.

Anonymous · Answer

For the same reasons women reject good men who are educated, smart, and can holding a job for another guy who doesn't have that.

CB-Raido-Time · Answer

I don't reject good women that are educated, smart, can hold a job. I reject them all.

shades777 · Answer

there's more to being a good woman that having a job...

Anonymous · Answer

Guys that do that might think you are too good for them.

DarkLegacy · Answer

I thought this is what women did with men

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