Why do men fumble good women?

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So I have been seeing this guy who is basically out of my league. By that I mean, he doesn't have money, he doesn't have a car, and he can barely hold a job. I hold 2 bachelor's degrees, I have a good career making 6 figures. Im a hard worker, I don't do drugs, I don't sleep around. I am always there for him, I treat him like he's a king. I consider myself a good woman. And he friend-zoned me. He told me he wants to keep me in his life but only as friends because I am a good person. I truly do not understand this. Can anyone make sense of this? I don't understand why he does not want me as more than friends.

ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

Apologies, but the mistake is on you. You have all that esteem and career success but chose a guy who is basically a bum and can't hold a job. Any guy like that is going to surely take advantage of a girl like you. You probably made his ego feel sky high because he saw he snagged you, and then he either got bored or started fucking another girl.

Your case is a common one with women: talking about men messing up with good women, but then you're choosing men you can clearly see are garbage, and disregarding the truly good men out there. This is why women keep messing up and getting their feelings hurt.

AmeerX · Accepted Answer

🤣 this exact thing happened to me too. Found a girl, treated her great, she had some disease, first she said she has epilepsy, then she said she has autoimmune, then when that didn't work, she said her mom says avoid Muslim guys and I was really into her, she was just an artist and studying and I treated her like a queen. So, I don't overdo with these things. Don't waste your time on someone like him.
These people think they can play with your heart and treat you like trash. Just attention seekers and nothing else

Gloree · Accepted Answer

Let me give it to you straight. You are a very stupid person. Yes I said it and I'm talking facts. I dislike women who do this. You go around looking for trouble. The guy is saving you from ending up with a loser like him and you're complaining. Gosh. As you lay your bed, so you will lie on it. You had better unfriend him and start hanging out at nice places where single reasonable men can meet and treat you like a queen. Pick one among them and stop being very stupid.

Staximus · Answer

He's not out of your league, you're out of his league. He's a bum. Nevermind that bum and find a guy who is on your same level in life. Let him go find a female bum. If you married him, you would basically be adopting a grown child you have to take care of and do everything for.

Anonymous · Answer

That depends on what degrees you have. If they are bad degrees like a degree in visual arts or a degree in physical education then it is not a big deal. The big thing would be to graduate in statistics or medicine.

Anonymous · Answer

If he is out of your league then why you even fucking around him. ? Doesn't make sense

Anonymous · Answer

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