What did it mean?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I initiated a date with a guy whom I had crush on, and we both agree on taking it as a casual kinda date.
The date was casual without any feelings attached.
I personally felt his behaviour to be cold towards me, not very much interactive and when I asked him he said that his nature is like that, after talking for a while, we left and later on i asked about what had happened he explained that his head was aching.
Though this date was not supposed to be a romantic one but i didn't understand what happened here.

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Why he is doing that

[Anonymous]

From the information you provided, it seems that the guy's behavior during the date was not as warm or engaging as you expected. When you asked him about it, he explained that his head was aching, which could have affected his overall mood and level of interaction.

While the date was agreed upon as a casual outing without any romantic expectations, it's still reasonable to hope for a pleasant and enjoyable experience. However, it's important to keep in mind that people have off days or may not always express themselves in the way we anticipate.

In this case, the guy's cold behavior could have been influenced by his headache, which may have made it difficult for him to fully engage in the date or be as interactive as you would have liked. It's possible that his physical discomfort affected his mood and level of enthusiasm during the outing.

It's important to communicate openly with each other and express how you felt during the date. If you are interested in pursuing a deeper connection or exploring future outings, you could have a conversation with him about your expectations and see if there is potential for better communication and engagement in the future. However, if his behavior continues to be consistently cold or uninterested, it may be worth reassessing whether you are compatible or if pursuing a closer relationship is in your best interest.

Remember, every individual is unique, and people may have varying ways of expressing themselves, even in casual situations. It's important to have open and honest communication to understand each other's perspectives and feelings.

[Asker]

Yesss thanku so much actually the weather was so hot so it's understandable.