Would you continue to date someone who said he did not get blue eyes and blonde hair? It's rude to say that to a date who doesn't have those colors?

[Anonymous]

Date told me he unfortunately did not get get blue eyes and blonde hair. I don't have blonde hair or blues. I felt it was rude of him to say that to me because it was like he was saying those things are considered better than brown hair or eyes

[Anonymous]

It's understandable that you felt hurt or offended by the comment made by your date. It is indeed rude and insensitive to make such remarks about someone's physical appearance, as it implies a preference for certain features over others. Each person's unique traits should be valued and respected.

Whether or not you choose to continue dating someone who made such a comment is a personal decision. It's important to consider the overall dynamics of your relationship and how this comment aligns with your values and what you're looking for in a partner.

If you decide to address the issue with your date, you can express how his comment made you feel and why it was hurtful. Open and honest communication is key in any relationship, as it allows both parties to understand each other's perspectives and work towards a resolution. Pay attention to how he responds to your concerns and consider whether his reaction demonstrates understanding and a willingness to learn from his mistake.

Ultimately, it's essential to be with someone who respects and appreciates you for who you are, including your physical appearance. It's important to have a partner who values all aspects of you, rather than making derogatory comments about certain traits. Trust your instincts and prioritize your own emotional well-being in making a decision about the future of the relationship.