My SO said since I have a nice car why can't he have a nice car and get mad when jobs call me. I feel like he jealous of my success. Do you think so?

[Anonymous]

[Lliam]

Wow. Does he want you to buy him a car? Does he think you should support him? Does he think you are his mommy? That's some privileged shit.

Don't give him a dime. Don't pay his rent. Let him stand on his own two feet and show you his potential.

If he gets mad when jobs call you, it means that he doesn't know what work is. It sounds like he wants to hold you back instead of praising and encouraging you.

What does he do all day?

He should be proud of your work ethic, accomplishments and abilities. He should feel honored that you chose him to be with. I would be if I were in his position. It would make me want to get off my ass and make you proud of me.

All I see are red flags here.

[Asker]

He lives wit his mom and dad. I live in my own house that I got by myself. I got 2 cars and I have a job. He the opposite of me.

[Lliam]

I think you can do much better. Don't you?

[GoodEnoughThen]

I would say he is more envious than jealous. For many guys being the breadwinner is how they feel good about themselves, their masculinity, so you making more or having greater access to money may make him feel insecure.
Ask him how he feels about?
Share your thoughts with him, whether you care or not about his financial situation.

[Anonymous]

He can't handle a woman possibly being more successful than him. I would not stay with him

[Anonymous]

Meaning he wants you to get him a new car? I mean cause fuck if he wants one that bad then he can go get himself one. Sounds like someone who hasn’t really worked hard in their life.

[shades777]

buy him a car whats the big deal

[sheikalana]

Sounds jelous.