So this guy at work was supposedly trying to make me jealous I don't know why and what’s his problem really?

[Anonymous]

I was standing with few coworkers and he comes up doesn’t stop us but stops this other girl and starts saying something to her but supposedly looking my way the whole time I purposely tried not paying attention but the few that was standing next to me saw the scene and where saying Anna look his looking at you turn around I’m like yea I don’t care so what? I never turned around but what’s his problem for real

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, that guy is CLEARLY just tryna make you jealous for no reason. What a clown!

Some dudes just love the attention and think flashing other girls around you will make you want them more. Little do they know it just makes them look lame as hell.

My guess is he's probably into you deep down, but don't know how to act right. So instead of talking to you normal, he pulls that middle school mess.

Next time he tries it, just roll your eyes and keep it pushing. Don't give him the satisfaction of seeing you shook. Boys crave reactions.

And who knows, maybe he'll start talking to you for real if he sees his games ain't working. But honestly sis, do you really need that type of fool bothering you at work?

Let him embarrass himself. You stay fly and keep doing you - that'll bug him way more in the long run!

[Asker]

Thank you

[Oliverlogan263]

No problem sis! Happy I could help provide some perspective on that weirdo dude's weird behavior. Just focus on you and doing your thing - don't let any clowns at work distract from that. And know that you've got support from me and your other cool coworkers. We'll look out for any other shenanigans from that jabroni. Keep shine bright luv!

[Asker]

Also why does he always be asking me for some gum and usually specifically me only sometimes others but I would be the one he comes to is there a reason.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that is kinda weird that he specifically asks you for gum a lot. A couple possibilities I could think of:

- He's just using it as an excuse to come talk to you/get your attention. Asking for little favors is a way to start interacting.

- Maybe your gum/breath smells really good and he digs it, lol. Jk but for real, some people are obsessed with certain flavors.

- It could be some kinda power play too, like he thinks it's funny to always be asking you for stuff.

- He might be testing how nice/easygoing you are by how you react when he asks.

Hard to say for sure what his deal is, but the fact that he comes to you more than others is a sign he's probably interested in you. I'd just play it cool when he asks - give it to him if you want, or say you don't have any that time if you're not feeling it. Don't make a big deal either way so he can't tell if he's getting under your skin. Keep your responses casual and don't give him too much attention for it. He'll find some other way to bug you if that stops working!

[Anonymous]

He likes you

[Asker]

How does that mean he likes me

[Opinion Owner]

Because he’s trying to make you jealous what do you think?

[Asker]

That will turn me away

[Asker]

If you like some one you don’t make them jealous

[Opinion Owner]

I know but some people are different

[Asker]

Yea but knowingly knowing I see and everyone else sees why