Is this guy trying to make me jealous?

[Anonymous]

When you stop talking to a guy first. Then he makes a private story on Snapchat adds you on there then post pics of him out drinking with girls and a girl in his bed? Why was I added to this story?

Nope

Definitely

[Danny_dan92]

If you are right that he did this to make you jealous that’s some petty shit. And tbh very childish.


I had an ex girlfriend that did this, this is also called doing things out of spite. And trust me. You don’t want to date a person that does such acts. It’s such a headache

[Asker]

Well I’m not sure if he did it to make me jealous but it seems like it. Maybe cause I stoped talking to him and left him on read? I don't know I was never added to this private story until now. I don’t get why he would add me to it.

[Danny_dan92]

Maybe he just put you in the friendzone.

However after you saying that I kinda have to call you out on it. But I don't know why this bothers you tbh.

If you left him on read that means you were no longer interested. So anything he does from that point on shouldn’t affect you

[Asker]

Your right ! But why not post all of this on your regular story? Why make a private story scroll all the way down click on my name and add me to it?

[Danny_dan92]

Again. He probably see’s you as a friend.

And maybe cause there is a girl he’s serious about that he doesn’t wanna tarnish his chances with her, and she isn’t on that same list you know?

I had my “player” years.

Whenever I was seeing a woman that I really liked I either hid my story from her completely or made a separate group (close friends) story. Especially if I posted something that could have pushed her away

[Asker]

So a week previously from all of this ….. he drunk called me begging me to talk to him at like 3am I don't know its all weird I’ll probably just block him

[Danny_dan92]

What was the reason why?

[Asker]

I didn’t talk to him.. so he like blew up my phone saying he missed me and stuff and how I never text him first. then contacted me the next day sober saying the same.

[Danny_dan92]

Does he leave you on read?

[Asker]

No never, if anything it’s me who does it.

[Danny_dan92]

Hmm that’s interesting then

[Asker]

How so?

[Danny_dan92]

Cause I was expecting to hear that he leaves you on read, obviously then leaving you to not want to initiate conversation afterwards.

But no. Turns out that you not only leave him on read but also don’t care much to initiate conversation also lol

[Asker]

Is that bad?

[the_bruh]

Well now you know that he has parties with girls, so that's a red flag. Please tell me it's a red flag. If you say you like it imma throw my phone at the wall.

[MrHopper]

Maybe, he needs to be more sly though, like just take pics with various clearly female things in the background... like a handbag or a girls coat... amateur!

[Fireguy17]

He is an idiot.
Probably can't handle being the dumped, not the dumper.
Just block him and enjoy your life.

[Asker]

So you do think he was trying to get a reaction out of me?

[Fireguy17]

probably yes.
Do not give him the satisfaction of any type of reaction.
Just cut all ties to him, block him and move on to someone that will treat you better.
No one deserves to be treated like that.

[Asker]

But I never did anything to him. Just simply stop talking to him. It’s not like we were in a relationship!

[Fireguy17]

because you stopped talking to him first, just move on, life is way too short to play games with someone.

[Asker]

Do you think he will try to come back? Should I block him?

[patrick677]

Just forget about this idiot. You deserve better.

The real guy that want you will for sur never do this.

[Wise4myage]

Either that, or it was just random.