If she was trying to make me jealous and I confront her about it why is she uncomfortable?

[Anonymous]

This girl I like and is my friend is trying to make me jealous and I don’t know why. But when I confront her about it she is uncomfortable? Now I’m confused because we were friends and she starts saying I make her uncomfortable when I approach her asking her what’s going on. But I don’t understand her trying to make me jealous and now everything is turned to shit. For one if she is trying to get me jealous because she may like me say something but don’t say I make her uncomfortable. And second if she doesn’t like me why try to make me jealous that just hurts. Why doesn’t she leave me alone if she doesn’t like me. If she was trying to make me jealous with other guys so I’d hate her well mission accomplished she’s hurt me

[Fineasaaa]

Wait, are ya sure that she is tryin to make ya "jealous"?

[Asker]

Yesss it was clear as day she did it multiple times

[Fineasaaa]

Did anyone tell ya bout it? You cannot be so sure if you dont have any witness or someone who is clear that she was/is tryin to make you jealous, maybe she's not, it might be due to other reasons, maybe she really feels uncomfy around ya, you never know!

[Asker]

I just noticed that she did. For example I look up and she sees me. She’s talking to another guy and she suddenly bounces around acts like she’s having a great time. While the dude stands there awkwardly. Another time she walks to lunch towards me with this other guy but walks on an angle so I notice the minute I look up she looks away and walks straight. Beforehand we would have lunch together me and her many times. Then when she says I make her uncomfortable approaching her she comes up the next day and talks to this guy and walks off with him. But I know she came to talk to me instead but she acted like that because I ignored her as the last week I haven’t even tried to talk to her which somehow and some reason made her sad

[Asker]

@fineasaaa do you agree she was trying to make me jealous?

[Fineasaaa]

Wait, now I am starting to believe to she was/is actually trying to make you jealous, did ya guys had/have any kind of history?👀

[Asker]

No not really I’ve only known her for a few months so that’s why im confused because I don’t really understand her behaviour or if she’s trying to show me a sign or not I’m clueless I have no idea

[Fineasaaa]

Well, if she is really tryin to do that amd doesn't even wanna talk to ya, stop wasting time on her, okay? You dont have all the time in this world, ignore her, dont let it affect you much, give her a taste of her own medicine!

[Asker]

Yeah I will.. but I still don’t know why she’s doing this is it some playing hard to get game or something

[Fineasaaa]

I am confused too! Just dont give her any of your attention, at least foe a few days, I am sure she will change her mind, good luck!

[Asker]

What do you mean change her mind?

[Fineasaaa]

Bruh, I meant that maybe, she might change her mind in the near future and actually talk to you

[Asker]

Well she is talking to me a little just not as much as before