Can you not see bad girls want bad boys?

[Anonymous]

If a woman intentionally is picking degenerate men. She’s a degenerate herself. Stop worrying about them.

Good women want good men… and good men want good women. Stop worrying about them

[Anonymous]

Yeah. I came to this conclusion one day. Girls who date gangsters are in harmony with gangsters. You're not going to find two people dating who aren't in harmony with each other.

Most people are average and so they date average people. Once you realize this, it all starts to make since. You start to realize what average looks like in concrete form. It falls down from the abstract into the concrete. And then you also realize you've been chasing the wrong people. People chase the wrong things and people because they lack a vision though.

I think the biggest thing is you realize the average person isn't shit. Sadly the world is full of average people; thus, the reason we use the word average.

And when I say that I don't mean innately. People are average because their minds get conditioned by the masses.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

That's not always true. Some good women have Messiah complex and think they can save him or turn him into a good person.

Most of them are delusional and naive, but I did meet one who was actually successful in doing so. Unfortunately she's no longer with us

[PewDieCry]

True, most of them don't actually have what it takes to 'tame' a degenerate. The work that you need to put in to get them out of that dark place is very draining most people's willpower won't last past infatuation. I help a lot of people with messed up backgrounds and some were "bad boys". One guy told me that so many broken girls who don't even know how broken they are would try to fix him. He was repulsed by it and it led him to go cold after being intimate with them. Most broken people know they need to be fixed but they want to be responsible for those changes not have someone come in and save them

[PewDieCry]

I agree that most do. For some, they like bad boys because, unlike nice guys, the bad behaviour is seen first and the softer side can come afterwards.

In their subconscious they're convinced that "if i'm seeing his shitty side but I like it, I can't imagine what his hidden soft side is like". People get caught up in fantasies all the time though and then their bodies are discovered days later discombobulated in a dumpster.

Stay safe and date in your lane. Most people, including myself, are not built for that high risk madness.

For ladies: Always be cautious of nice guys who say they're nice guys. An actual nice guy is one whose actions show you that he is, not his words

[LazerBean]

You would think this would be obvious, but unfortunately a lot of men are too triggered to realize this, and the women who disagree are too dumb to realize they aren't a good girl.

[Asker]

Yeah I know. Someone says men wear 20 masks. There’s women like this too. They act like good girls but really aren’t… There’s plenty of them the same there’s plenty of men like this.

But there good men and good women it’s just a sign of the times

[Curmudgeon]

The problem is that even the "good" girls often want the "bad" boys, either out of a hope they can save them or just because said bad boys make their naughty parts tingle.

"What happened to all the nice guys? YOU did..." (hat tip to @Lidepi if he is still around)
Where Did All The Nice Guys Go?

[Asker]

Nahhhh. They’re degenerate whores who want bad boys. They’re just pretending they’re good

[Curmudgeon]

No disagreement there - note my putting "good" in quotation marks.

[PewDieCry]

Nice guys are some of the biggest assholes I have encountered because their flawed character traits sneak up on you. I do agree that degenerates like dating degenerates though. I like my men calm, social and put together for the most part and absolutely goofy and chaotic when we're letting loose

[inhua]

you can't intentionally be attracted to or not intentionally be attracted to someone

even good girls fall for bad boys. it's biologically hardwired into them

[SeriouslyFunny00]

[McGrill]

I love the guy in the GIF

[Anonymous]

Not true.
Men wear 20 masks. Just to fuck.
And if we say men be true. They will still lie because men use relationships for sex and women use sex to get relationships

[Asker]

Sure there is men who do. There is women who do too…. There’s also genuine people.

[Asker]

Maybe stop hating all men and you won’t get the shitty ones

[Opinion Owner]

I did and got a lame. LOL

[Opinion Owner]

Now I'm back to men arnt shit because they arnt.
Genuinely

[Sunssong]

You're attracted to "ain't shit" men because you are in harmony with them

[Opinion Owner]

@Sunssong not anymore. Just because I'm attracted to my abuser doesn't mean I'm an ain't shit person. Lol

[Opinion Owner]

It seems fucked up because it is.

[Opinion Owner]

The men I like are cute guys and then they can get any girl they want most of. them are lovers though every guy (almost every guy) isn't shit. I'm not perfect but it is what it is

[Sunssong]

I didn't say you were... I said "you are in harmony with them"

I like girls but I'm not a girl.

[Asker]

You’re just a sexist loser. That’s why men don’t want you 👍

[Asker]

@Sunssong yup. That’s the thing. There’s good men out there. But no good man I know what’s a sexist.

Same with women. Like who the hell wants a man who hates women and fantasizes about killing them? Says all nasty things about women in general

[Asker]

@Sunssong yeah. It’s sad to see people like this. Some people here think I hate women. That’s not true. I have met some sweet hearted just wonderful women and some…. Ehhhj no so.

Men who sleep around and pick women up at bars and nightclubs and then think some Christian virgin woman wants to marry them are out of their ever loving mind.

The same for women who want to marry a man who does all this for them. But they want to date douchebags and fuck boys….

[Opinion Owner]

I am not sexist lol
I've never met a really hot guy who wasn't a player. Even average men are and can very well be players.

[Opinion Owner]

If I'm sexist fuck it. Idc
Men who don't get laid easy are either nice guys who throw hissy fits or good men who are terrible at sex. I've experienced it and so has other women.
They could very well be good men but not a good fit for her. You see a pretty shoe. Wrong size. Should I force it?

[Asker]

This is why men don’t want you. No decent one at least. Have a nice life

[Asker]

So you complain when a man’s a player…. But when a man sucks at sex. You also complain. Your funny.

Plus there is many women who are like this they’re pretty and use their looks to their advantage to take advantage of men who and make them buy them all kinds of stuff but have no real intentions of dating.

But they’re not all like that

[Opinion Owner]

That's where you have everything wrong. I accepted a man "not my type" I've tried working with me who don't fit. It's hit or miss. I don't have time for you and you trying to raise. an issue when there's none. I have an abundance of attention, love & care for me. YOU are the ONLY one with a problem here. YOU are just 1 guy not on my roster and sound butt hurt you can't be one to satisfy me. It's okay let it go!!

[PewDieCry]

Yes, I almost fell into the mindset of "all men are shitty" because I wanted to be accepted in my girl groups but I met a few who treated me really well.
If you're attracting trash, you're a dumpster truck. If you want to change the people you attract, you have to change yourself first and then maybe you'll be a tractor collecting fresh produce on the farm🤠

[Asker]

Okay Opinion Owner don’t act like all men other then myself are great now. A lot of people probably just feel you’re not worth it to argue.

I’m not really butt hurt, I don’t know you and honestly I had a pretty good day and forgot about this. You’re just a sexist loser!

[Asker]

@PewDieCry people like this just genuinely aren’t worth decent mens time who have a lot of options. So they hate all men because the ones they want don’t want them.

But. That’s true. Best to be yourself and you’ll attract who really wants you. It’s not about all of the other sex. It’s about finding that special someone.

There’s a lot of men and women who want to make the entire other sex desire them… Not gonna happen

[Asker]

It’s like incels… The “unicorns” or decent women just genuinely don’t want someone whose a sexist.

I understand people have been hurt both male and female. But then take their anger out on people they don’t even know and have done nothing to them

[Nikki1989]

I thought that would have been obvious.

[Makeushiver]

Not exactly, all girls want bad boys. Some want good boys to marry and bad boys for lovers

[Babygirl_S]

But are you really a good guy?