Dating without connection or attraction?

[Anonymous]

Would you date or continue to date someone that you don't really have any kind of physical attraction to and more importantly no real kind of connection with. I don't really have that many options and people interested in me are pretty rare.

[BoopBoopBeep]

What's the point then?

Why aren't people interested in you? Instead of wasting your time on people you have no connection to, why not spend that time making yourself a more attractive candidate?

[Asker]

I think people are not interested due balding at an early age, also I'm overweight as well on top of that I'm not tall. I've lost weight in the past and it didn't really help.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Ok well Bruce Willis has carpal tunnel from having to high five so many people from all the P he was getting, so own it, shave that ist off. You're never going to hide it and combovers look stupid. Peter Dinklage gets made P... are you taller than him? Lose the weight and get cut/buff. You lost ten pounds before but you're 80lbs overweight? Nobody could tell. I was super overweight when I was younger. I'm not here to blow sunshine up your butt OR beat you down, but what you're saying is bull ist dude you can do this. I know because I did and there's no reason to believe you're any worse than I am. You're just misdirected. So focus. For a whole year. Do NOTHING but work on you. No friends if they don't work on you. Make friends with your new running buddy/ruckmarch buddy. Make friends with people in your martial arts class (not just for the exercise but the focus). Whatever is in your life that does not make your life better gets shelved for a whole year. Of course focus on your job too because unemployment sucks. I was told I'd never walk a quarter mile after some bad medical ist last year. Next weekend I'm doing a half marathon. It'll be slow, for sure, but DFL (dead f'ing last) beats DNF (Did not finish) beats DFS (Didn't f'ing start). I come in "last place" then F it I wear my finisher medal with pride, because I still finished before all the MFs that didn't show up. Today I crossed the finish line with a female that lost both her legs and had those blade prosthetics. She was hella faster than me. Good F'ing On HER! Bet she wanted to give up at some point too.