Dating relationships?

[Anonymous]

I’m seeing this woman who I find very attractive, we have been in two dates so far. Them both seem to go very well, we kiss laugh , cuddle and really enjoy each other’s company.. what I notice now is I would go on another date but I’m not like oh my gosh I wanna go on another date.. and through out my day I’m not constantly thinking about her.. I do a little when I’m home from work but not periodically throughout the day..

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11 mo

Shouldn’t you be more excited especially in the beginning when talking to someone new? Like I said the first two dates we great but now I’m not thinking about her as much.. they do say time apart makes the heart fonder.. but I think I’m more attached to the attention and her beauty.. I don't know if that makes sense

[HappyWoman34]

I think you’ve just grown up. Your life shouldn’t revolve around other people all the time by your thirties.

[Asker]

That is true ! But I mean when you are dating someone in the beginning should it be more exciting and they are on your mind more? That’s what I’m trying to figure out.

[HappyWoman34]

No. Not when you’re older.

[HappyWoman34]

It is better to have mild attraction than one that overpowers you, as it can blind you to recognising incompatibility.

[Asker]

Okay that makes sense , to recap when I’m with her it’s wonderful , but during the day she’s not constantly on my mind.. and I do wanna see her again but it’s not oh gosh I can’t wait to see her.

[HappyWoman34]

That’s normal 😊

[Billlewis]

What is your ultimate goal in your relationship with her?

[Asker]

Settle down and have a family.. she wants more kids at least 2