I usually don’t like all the men vs women red pill stuff in here but I thought it might be good to ask because I want to know before I move in August.
I’ve dated a 3 guys in my hometown both of whom were only pursuing me or had little experience before me, I’m the same. I don’t like taking the energy to seek out people because I’ve always found what you need and what will make you the most happy with find it’s way into your life no matter what.
I plan to keep this mindset but there re so many people and New York is like home home of the kinds of guys I like, artsy, emotional, smart, funny types who dress well. My fear is though since I’m not used to the competition of millions of other well founded lovely women (not trying to brag I’m saying my comparison there are great options out there) I’ll end up in a competition. I’m not a competer and will never compete for a man no matter how attractive I find him. I just like mutually appreciating and kind of exclusively going out with 1 guy at time.
Am I screwed in New York because the pond is too big?
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New York is the worse place to date.
You'll find out if you stay long enough.
I’m only staying for 5 years, I have a temporary job I’m taking before being moved again. I’d prefer to meet a husband here though, because I’m want to be fully settle down by my thirties.
There's 12 million people in New York.
I'm sure you'll find something to your liking
it’s not a matter of not finding guys I like, the whole city is my type. I just hope I don’t get overshadowed because of how many great women there are there.
So don't let them
Where are you moving FROM?