Don't you think Love is a Soul to Soul connection not just based on Physical attributes?

[Anonymous]

[andreasderjuengere]

I don't think so at all.
''Love'' is a romantic -and meanwhile commercialized - concept of irrational behaviour, based on mating intentions.
Thus, it's just fictional in this respect.
Where I see true ''love'' is i. e. in a self sacrifice or priority preference for 'your' kids, or 'your' dogs.

[Anonymous]

No , physical are the most important , also with money for a guy to find love.

[Asker]

Why so obsessed with money?

[Asker]

Why are you so disappointed? The partner whom God has chosen for you will surely love you. Not just because of your money and looks.

[Asker]

Yeh bhi tmhri trha hopeless hogaya hay @YourExLover69

[Opinion Owner]

That's very important for guys to have to get a relationship. That's how life and society works. I am not that religious and have been rejected and get rejected mostly because of money. Life isn't that simple.

[Asker]

So sad. Dont lose hope. Those connections were not meant to be, so thats why they broke. What God didn't make for you has to end no matter how it ends.

[Asker]

You should thank God that those gold digger girls are gone from your life

[Asker]

It is a good thing that their true nature has come out, otherwise you would have regretted it later.

[Opinion Owner]

It's not about gold digging , women generally want a provider guy and men want a nurturar. Gold diggers want extreme kind of money but you need to have a good amount too for normal girls. I believe in the realistic version of love.

[Asker]

Okay

[Cheerfull009]

Agree, No Money, No Honey

[catiecatie]

I feel like people know who their soulmate is. I think I found mine but I don't know. We are pretty much the same person. I just think he’s trying to keep it professional but it seems like his interest based on what he’s been doing.

[Mimi_758]

Yes that's correct☺

[Asker]

Wow you are Muslim. Nice to meet u

[Mimi_758]

Yes i am nice to meet you too my name is Mereyem☺

[Asker]

Finally i met a Muslim girl. 🤗

[Mimi_758]

Haha Yep where are you from?

[Asker]

Islamabad Pakistan

[Mimi_758]

ohh very nice I am from Saudi but will be moving to Pakistan this Summer

[Asker]

Good luck dear

[Mimi_758]

thank you hey may i ask you something in Private if your okay with that

[Asker]

Yes...

[Mimi_758]

It's not letting me massage you

[Asker]

What can we do

[Mimi_758]

Umm i think u need to follow me to actually be able to PM you :)

[Asker]

No problem. I will

[Mimi_758]

Thank you so much :)

[Cheerfull009]

@emmakhan, Congratulations, great Invention, lucky enough

[Asker]

@Cheerfull009 what do u mean by that?

[Cheerfull009]

@emmakhan, you are able to meet, a Muslim girl, are you not happy?

[Asker]

Leave it.

[sage2021]

Sometimes it can feel that way. Like soulmate's. I thought that I had a soulmate, but then he changed all of a sudden and never changed back. I feel like we are more like friends. 😞

[jammcm]

You may go into a relationship because of a physical attraction, but it won't last without the soul connection. Enjoy and have a good evening.

[Asker]

Exactly

[Anonymous]

^ This

[YourExLover69]

This is true... But aajkal ye baat kon samjhta he 😔 srif paisay k peechay bhagtay Hain sabb is dunya main

[Asker]

Paison k, status k aur khubsurati k.

[YourExLover69]

Mujhe srif girl main loyalty chahiye or Kuch nahi..

[YourExLover69]

تم کو جہان شوق و تمنا میں کیا ملا​
ہم بھی ملے تو درہم و برہم ملے تمہیں

[Asker]

میں اپنے ساتھ رہتا ہوں ہمیشہ

اکیلا ہوں مگر تنہا نہیں ہوں

[YourExLover69]

Good one.
Is dafa asker aap khud ho.
Aaj apko notifications arahe hongay 😜

[YourExLover69]

کبھی دیکھی ہے زندگی میں ایسی اذیت تم نے؟
کوئی آپ کہے، پھر تم کہے، پھر تم سے کہے، تم کون ہو؟

[Asker]

ان میں کیا فرق ہے اب اس کا بھی احساس نہیں

درد اور دل کا ذرا دیکھیے یکساں ہونا

[Asker]

کس نے دیکھے ہیں تری روح کے رستے ہوئے زخم

کون اترا ہے ترے قلب کی گہرائی میں

[YourExLover69]

Good one...

میری عمر کے ساتھ تیری جدائی کا غم بھی بڑھ رہا ہے
لوگ جھوٹے تھے، جو کہتے تھے، دو چار دن کی بات ہے

[YourExLover69]

تمہارے پہلو میں جو ہماری جگہ کھڑا ہے
اسے بتاؤ وہ شخص کس کی جگہ کھڑا ہے

[Asker]

Wah...

[YourExLover69]

وہ جو خود نہ کرسکا وعدے پورے
وہ مجھے بے وفا کہہ کر چلا گیا

[Asker]

حال میرا بھی جائے عبرت ہے

اب سفارش رقیب کرتے ہیں

[YourExLover69]

Hmmm.

Lagta he Aapka or Mera taste ek jesa hai.

Aap bhi ghum ki maari ho Meri trah

[Asker]

ہوا ہے چار سجدوں پر یہ دعویٰ زاہدو تم کو

خدا نے کیا تمہارے ہاتھ جنت بیچ ڈالی ہے

[YourExLover69]

اول رکھا ہے ہر لحاظ تمھیں
تم تو ہم میں بھی ہم سے پہلے ہو

[Asker]

I don't know why? Logon ko lagta hai poetry sirf ishq aashiq ki hoti hay. Aashiqui se bahir niklo. Urdu adab parho. Kafi achay topics pe b poetry hochuki hay.

[YourExLover69]

لوگوں نے روز مانگا خدا سے کچھ نیا
ایک ہم تھے کہ تیرے خیال سے آگے نہ جا سکے

[Asker]

Yeh acha hy

[YourExLover69]

بات کرنے کا حسیں طور طریقہ سیکھا
ہم نے اٌردو کےبہانے سے سلیقہ سیکھا

[Asker]

Wah... good

[Asker]

سچائی وہ جنگ ہے جس میں بعض اوقات سپاہی کو

آپ مقابل اپنے ہی ڈٹ جانا پڑتا ہے

[Asker]

یاروں کی محبت کا یقیں کر لیا میں نے

پھولوں میں چھپایا ہوا خنجر نہیں دیکھا

[YourExLover69]

Last one is good !!

[YourExLover69]

خاموش اے دل بھری محفل میں چلانا نہیں اچھا

ادب پہلا قرینہ ہے ، محبت کے قرینوں میں

[Asker]

تکبر ناگواری کا سبب ہے

عبادت عاجزی بھی چاہتی ہے

[Asker]

وفا اخلاص قربانی محبت

اب ان لفظوں کا پیچھا کیوں کریں ہم

[YourExLover69]

نئی فِضا میں پرندہ اٌڑان بھول گیا
زمیں پہ چلنے لگا آسمان بھول گیا

غریبِ شہر نے رکھی ہے آبرو ورنہ
امیرِ شہر تو اٌردو زٌبان بھول گیا

[Asker]

اب دیکھنا ہے مجھ کو ترے آستاں کا ظرف

سر کو جھکا رہا ہوں بڑی عاجزی کے ساتھ

[YourExLover69]

قلم بدست ھوں حیران ھوں کھ کیا لکھوں
ﻗﻠﻢ ﺑﺪﺳﺖ ﮨﻮﮞ ﺣﯿﺮﺍﻥ ﮨﻮﮞ ﮐﮧ ﮐﯿﺎ
ﻟﮑﮭﻮﮞ
ﻣﯿﮟ ﺗﯿﺮﯼ ﺑﺎﺕ ﮐﮧ ﺩﻧﯿﺎ ﮐﺎ ﺗﺬﮐﺮﮦ
ﻟﮑﮭﻮﮞ
ﻟﮑﮭﻮﮞ ﮐﮧ ﺗُﻮ ﻧﮯ ﻣﺤﺒﺖ ﮐﯽ ﺭﻭﺷﻨﯽ
ﻟﮑﮭﯽ
ﺗﺮﮮ ﺳﺨﻦ ﮐﻮ ﺳﺘﺎﺭﻭﮞ ﮐﺎ ﻗﺎﻓﻠﮧ
ﻟﮑﮭﻮﮞ

[YourExLover69]

ﯾﮧ ﭘﮭﻮﻝ ﻣﺠﮭﮯ ﮐﻮﺋﯽ ﻭﺭﺍﺛﺖ ﻣﯿﮟ
ﻣﻠﮯ ﮨﯿﮟ

ﺗﻢ ﻧﮯ ﻣﺮﺍ ﮐﺎﻧﭩﻮﮞ ﺑﮭﺮﺍ ﺑﺴﺘﺮ ﻧﮩﯿﮟ
ﺩﯾﮑﮭﺎ

ﭘﺘﮭﺮ ﻣﺠﮭﮯ ﮐﮩﺘﺎ ﮨﮯ ﻣﺮﺍ ﭼﺎﮨﻨﮯ ﻭﺍﻻ

ﻣﯿﮟ ﻣﻮﻡ ﮨﻮﮞ ﺍﺱ ﻧﮯ ﻣﺠﮭﮯ ﭼﮭﻮ ﮐﺮ
ﻧﮩﯿﮟ ﺩﯾﮑﮭﺎ

[Asker]

وہ شخص کہ میں جس سے محبت نہیں کرتا

ہنستا ہے مجھے دیکھ کے نفرت نہیں کرتا

[YourExLover69]

ﻓﺮﯾﺎﺩ ﮐﺮﻭﮞ ﻣﮕﺮ ﮐﮩﺎﮞ ﺗﮏ
ﺟﺐ ﺳﺎﺗﮫ ﻧﮧ ﺩﮮ ﺳﮑﮯ ﺯﺑﺎﮞ ﺗﮏ
ﺁﻧﺴﻮ ﺗﻮ ﻣﯿﮟ ﭘﯽ ﺭﮨﺎ ﮨﻮﮞ، ﻟﯿﮑﻦ
ﻣﻤﻨﻮﻉ ﮐﺮﻭ ﻧﮧ ﮨﭽﮑﯿﺎﮞ ﺗﮏ
ﮔﻮﻧﺠﺎ ﻭﮦ ﺳﮑﻮﺕ ﭘَﻮ ﭘﮭﭩﮯ ﮐﺎ
ﻣﺠﮫ ﮐﻮ ﻧﮧ ﺳﻨﺎﺋﯽ ﺩﯼ ﺍﺫﺍ ﮞ ﺗﮏ
ﺍﻧﺴﺎﻥ، ﺧﺪﺍ ﮐﯽ ﺟﺴﺘﺠﻮ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺑﮭﭩﮑﺎ ﮨﮯ ﺯﻣﯿﮟ ﺳﮯ ﺁﺳﻤﺎﮞ ﺗﮏ

[Asker]

Wah wah

[Asker]

دل ناداں تری حالت کیا ہے

تو نہ اپنوں میں نہ بیگانوں میں

[YourExLover69]

میرے نالوں کی سُن کر زبانیں
ہوگئی موم کتنی چٹانیں
میں نے پگھلا دیا پتھروں کو
اک تیرا دل پگھلتا نہیں ہے

[Asker]

Kahen aur try kren shayad kisi aur ka pigal jaye dil aap per.

[YourExLover69]

Tobah 🤣🤣

[Asker]

نہ جانے کب ترے دل پر نئی سی دستک ہو

مکان خالی ہوا ہے تو کوئی آئے گا

[YourExLover69]

ﺟﺲ ﺩﻥ ﺳﮯ ﭼﻼ ﮨﻮﮞ ﻣﺮﯼ ﻣﻨﺰﻝ ﭘﮧ
ﻧﻈﺮ ﮨﮯ

ﺁﻧﮑﮭﻮﮞ ﻧﮯ ﮐﺒﮭﯽ ﻣﯿﻞ ﮐﺎ ﭘﺘﮭﺮ ﻧﮩﯿﮟ
ﺩﯾﮑﮭﺎ

ﯾﮧ ﭘﮭﻮﻝ ﻣﺠﮭﮯ ﮐﻮﺋﯽ ﻭﺭﺍﺛﺖ ﻣﯿﮟ
ﻣﻠﮯ ﮨﯿﮟ

ﺗﻢ ﻧﮯ ﻣﺮﺍ ﮐﺎﻧﭩﻮﮞ ﺑﮭﺮﺍ ﺑﺴﺘﺮ ﻧﮩﯿﮟ
ﺩﯾﮑﮭﺎ

[YourExLover69]

@emmakhan us anonymous ne at least try to kia Kuch bar.

[Asker]

Likin phir b hua tu reject he hay.

[Asker]

مجھ کو خواہش ہی ڈھونڈنے کی نہ تھی

مجھ میں کھویا رہا خدا میرا

[YourExLover69]

Main reject nahi hua 😜
Srif mujhe prefer nahi Kiya gya girl ki traf se.

[YourExLover69]

ﺗﺸﻨﮕﯽ ﻧﮯ ﺳﺮﺍﺏ ﮨﯽ ﻟﮑﮭﺎ
ﺧﻮﺍﺏ ﺩﯾﮑﮭﺎ ﺗﮭﺎ، ﺧﻮﺍﺏ ﮨﯽ ﻟﮑﮭﺎ
ﮨﻢ ﻧﮯ ﻟﮑﮭﺎ ﻧﺼﺎﺏِ ﺗِﯿﺮﮦ ﺷﺒﯽ
ﺍﻭﺭ ﺑﺼﺪ ﺁﺏ ﻭ ﺗﺎﺏ ﮨﯽ ﻟﮑﮭﺎ

[Asker]

Then keep trying

[Asker]

دل جو ٹوٹے گا تو اک طرفہ چراغاں ہوگا

کتنے آئینوں میں وہ شکل دکھائی دے گی

[Asker]

Mujhe b koi pasand agaya tha magar:
وہ میری خاموشی نہیں سنتا.
مجھ سے آواز دی نہیں جاتی.

[Asker]

اُس کے لہجے سے مجھے بس یہ معلوم ہوا .
اسے دشوار لگتا ہے اب مجھ سے تعلق رکھنا .

[Cheerfull009]

@YourExLover69, jo bahout mushkal ha, 200 main sa Aik

[Cheerfull009]

@YourExLover69, kujj inj v Rahwan oukhian San,
Kijj gal wich Ghamm da Touq V C,
Kujj Shaher day Lok v Zalim San,
Kujj sanu marrn da Shouq V C,
Muneer Niazi

[YourExLover69]

ﻧﮧ ﺭﮐﮭﺎ ﮨﻢ ﻧﮯ ﺑﯿﺶ ﻭ ﮐﻢ ﮐﺎ
ﺧﯿﺎﻝ
ﺷﻮﻕ ﮐﻮ ﺑﮯ ﺣﺴﺎﺏ ﮨﯽ ﻟﮑﮭﺎ
ﻧﮧ ﻟﮑﮭﺎ ﺍﺱ ﻧﮯ ﮐﻮﺋﯽ ﺑﮭﯽ ﻣﮑﺘُﻮﺏ
ﭘﮭﺮ ﺑﮭﯽ ﮨﻢ ﻧﮯ ﺟﻮﺍﺏ ﮨﯽ ﻟﮑﮭﺎ
ﺩﻭﺳﺘﻮ ﮨﻢ ﻧﮯ ﺍﭘﻨﺎ ﺣﺎﻝ ﺍُﺳﮯ
ﺟﺐ ﺑﮭﯽ ﻟﮑﮭﺎ، ﺧﺮﺍﺏ ﮨﯽ ﻟﮑﮭﺎ

[YourExLover69]

@Cheerfull009 Tum Kahan se tapak gaye, tharki wahiyat 🤬

[Asker]

Yeh shair acha ha na rakha hum ne baish o kam ka khayal

[YourExLover69]

Hmmm Sahi. Mujhe bhi acha Laga kabhi share Kiya aap se

[Cheerfull009]

@YourExLover69, main turkey nahi hon, Bhai, Main Majnoo nahin, Na Mujjay Shaari ka Shouq ha, Muneer Niazi k shaair, punjabi main likhay han, inn main thurk jaissi koi bat nahin,, Mera Concept kissi k pachaay baghna nahin, main aik cheep person nahin, I am from Fudel Family, have some standard, Money and status in society

[YourExLover69]

Gayab ho gya he. Block maartay hi. Hahahah 🤣 cheerful wahiyat

[TheSpaceGnome]

Souls aren't real.

Love is mental, lust is physical, and healthy relationships consist of both.

[Erin2003]

Love based only on physical attributes would be called lust. Love is deeper than lust.

[SaRang21]

Love is soul to soul connection
Attraction is physically based connection

[lightbulb27]

yes it's sub conscious emotions, and maybe the physics of the universe at it's core...

[lightbulb27]

and it's not always good either... you can love that is bad for you... for it's attached to other emotions that are controlling in an unproductive or negative way.

[LiamJHayden]

Love, to me, is the conscious choice to seek the best for the other person. From that spring all sorts of tight bonds, but the advantage of this type of love is that it weathers storms.

[SunnyRS]

Well love is definitely more than physical attraction but not everyone we love can be a soul to soul connection.

[Asker]

Can be true.

[SunnyRS]

Sure😊

[slatyb]

Souls aren't real. We do choose partners for more than just physical beauty.

[JHNS98]

To be totally honest with you, I don't actually know what love even is at this stage.

[Babygirl_S]

Are you saying that I could find a lover if I were disfigured or disabled? I know that isn't how it works.

[roy_ricky09]

Hell no
2 things
We all lust with our eyes and love with heart
It's all lust, but we all lie and call it love. 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

[8InchesChris]

My personal take and how i look at it its that if am not attractive nor she is to me then it won't work end off.

[TracyF]

Yes, absolutely. True love is entanglement of my spirit and yours.

[collie22]

I think everything including spiritual, heart and the flesh

[Crankor]

I suppose it could be that, but how and what does that involve?

[TallAnon]

No, I don't even think a soul exists at all and have not seen any proof for the opposite.

[Anonymous]

It's all about money honey, don't look out to be loved.

[Cheerfull009]

Only real love is soul to soul, but at present, it is body to body

[Anonymous]

I think love is something other girls get to have.

[Anonymous]

Love. Soul. Feelings...
This words design to fool people...
Money &:sex is pure soul

[Anonymous]

no, her ass, tits, legs, lips speak louder than your imaginative "souls" get real!!

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Souls don’t reproduce.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

You don't need love to reproduce. Apples and oranges

[Summeroflove]

I do think so

[DextroShade]

Physical attraction is a prerequisite.

[In_Trance]

Sometimes, not always

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Absolutely

[LovingJo]

Yes!! 💯 ❤️

[Asker]

Exactly

[Rockstarrrrr]

Aww 🥺🥺...

[Andres77]

Love is a decision…