Is dating the hardest for women of colour in the West? Why/why not?

[Babygirl_S]

I have observed that men of colour are accepted and rather fetishised by women. They succeed in finding better partners than their female counterparts who are neglected or used for sex.

Average or below average white women find it extremely easy to attract the top 10% white men for serious relationships. These men either avoid women of colour or want secret casual sexual relationships with such women. These women tell me that I can only get the rejected white men.

Like most women on the planet, I'm attracted to these highly desirable white men. But they NEVER marry Indian/black women for some reason. I have been told to move to a predominantly white country but it doesn't sound like a good idea seeing how underrated certain ethnicities are in these countries.

An Indian guy can easily attract someone out of his league

An average white woman doesn't find it hard to attract an insanely handsome white man

Let me know if you've observed a different pattern because I haven't 🤷🏻‍♀️

[ZackBan]

I would say it has mostly to do with your own looks and presentation.

Yes it's harder no denying that but many women of color are drop dead gorgeous and desired by any man.

Think of Rihana or Beyonce or Halle Berry.

It takes a bit more work but mainly what you need to do is control what you can control.

That means take care of your fitness, you skin, your hair.
Stay away from the fake accessories absolutely NO man likes those (fake hair fake lashes fake nails...)
Get your fashon on point.
And of course build up your own inner confidence in what you can do which is hard but doable.

In no time you'll be walking the streets and men will stop and stare no matter what their own race is.

[Billlewis]

I think dating, in general, is most difficult for both Black women and the white guys who are interested in having a relationship with a woman of color.

[Babygirl_S]

Yes and these white guys aren't the highly sought after ones.

[Billlewis]

Let's be honest for a moment here -- no white guys are highly sought after these days. We've been cast as the villains of the world, but strangely, white women are okay... I guess they figured out that they can't lose all our votes, just the men's votes. Sorry for bringing politics into it, but it's the times we're living in, unfortunately. I do sympathize with you, however. I know a lot of white guys think they can date a very attractive Black woman, simply because they're white, and I think that's racism in its worst form.

[Babygirl_S]

Attractive white guys are everyone's dream.

[Babygirl_S]

Thank you by the way but I'm not black.

[Billlewis]

Oh my goodness... I'm so embarrassed, I apologize.

[Babygirl_S]

It's okay you don't have to apologise

[BoopBoopBeep]

I respectfully disagree. What makes a white guy highly sought after?

[Babygirl_S]

@BoopBoopBeep They look more attractive to me and most Asian women.

[BoopBoopBeep]

No no, I understand that. You said "Yes and these white guys aren't the highly sought after ones." I was respectfully disagreeing because I've dated a great many black and brown women and it would seem I check a lot of the boxes for highly sought after, so I was wondering what it is that you felt they (the white men) were lacking.

[Babygirl_S]

@BoopBoopBeep Who doesn't want an equally attractive partner?

[BoopBoopBeep]

Everyone does. I don't follow. Who said anyone doesn't?

[Avicenna]

You really need to get your information from something other than social media

[OlderAndWiser]

https://youtu.be/SVKKRzemX_w

[Babygirl_S]

How is this relevant?

[OlderAndWiser]

So many people want to sing this song - oh, woe is me - and feel sorry for themselves. What does it accomplish? Nothing!

Everyone faces obstacles and hurdles. Get over it.

[Babygirl_S]

I have clearly highlighted how it's easy for certain people.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Doesn’t seem so in London. There are many non-White (sorry, I find the term ‘of colour’ very racist) gents there! Many people in general ain’t so racist to date only within the same colour as they are.

[Babygirl_S]

Exactly these non-white guys find it easier than non-white girls to attract a good partner.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Are there more guys than girls or guys have more than one girl?

[Babygirl_S]

There are clearly more Indian men in the UK than women.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

What about men and women in the UK of the human race, not just Indians? If the numbers of men and women are the same, and no polyamory occurs, the number of single men should be equal to the number of single women. 💛+🤍=💗. 💛+💛=💗. 🤍+💛=💗. 🤍+🤍=💗.

[Babygirl_S]

I don't know. I don't live in the UK.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I've dated a ton of non-white women, as have many of my peers, what are you talking about? It's so common, where do you live?

[Berethor]

White men more traditional than white women, and men are strong, women are pretty trope.

[Babygirl_S]

Men are handsome, women are pretty trope

[Berethor]

Fashion Magazine? it's the model couple trope, anyway it not what you shown here.

[Babygirl_S]

Can you forget about tropes for a moment?

[Berethor]

"All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players." - William Shakespeare

[htmndg183]

Have you ever set foot in the West or do you just believe everything you stumble upon?

[LazerBean]

Where do you live? Because it's not in reality.

[Cristinaissweet]

It depends where in the west you live

[Jennz6]

I don’t think so, why would it be?