What do you think of guys that never kissed a girl/woman before?

[Anonymous]

Who are not only virgins, but also never kissed a girl or woman. I am talking about romantic kiss.

[Billlewis]

They're total losers, and I'm in that category, as well, or very close to being in it. I've kissed women a few times, but I've kissed a lot more feet and asses than faces... lol

[Asker]

Why they are losers?

[Asker]

I mean, a guy that have done it but hit women, isn't a loser?

[Billlewis]

Oh, no, I'll never defend any guy who is physically abusive to women. It's a turn on to view myself as a loser, but as we all know, sex is largely symbolic, although we much prefer to have it than not have it.

[Asker]

I can't say I am virgin, even though I never kissed a woman. My first time was with a prostitute. Fuck no, I wasn't gonna kiss her! The closes thing to a real kiss was with my LDR. I honestly thought we were gonna see each other in person, but there was mountains of problems ahead. If I knew what was coming I wouldn't have experience the closest thing to the real deal, online.

[Billlewis]

But it sounds like you're close to being a virgin, which I think is a very good thing... I'm a 'Born Again Virgin' -- used to have sex when I was younger but have learned about the benefits of not getting any pussy:)

[Asker]

Ah, I wouldn't call myself virgin, if I fucked a prostitute, but yeah, I am somewhat a borderline virgin, taking into account that I never kissed a gal before, or dated.

[Billlewis]

Oh my goodness... do have any idea how jealous I am of you? Seriously. If I knew what I know now about women and sexuality in general, I'd very likely still be a genuine, honest to goodness pussy free virgin. Of course, I'm about as close as you can get to that status right now, and I've never been happier or more fulfilled.

[Asker]

It has pros. More time for yourself and a higher chance of been successfully. Not that you can't be successfull with a woman's but the variables decrease when you are in a relationship.

[Billlewis]

But that's just it -- you can be fabulously successful with women without having to get your dick inside her...

[Asker]

I mean, yeah. Having or not having sex don't determine how succesfull you can be, but been in a relationship with someonr can a negative impacts or positive, but most likely negative, of your goals are really high.

[Billlewis]

Not having to deal with the pressure of performing for her, and pursuing a subservient role as her oral slave is incredibly exciting, because the hottest, sexiest woman in the world is the one you're spending all your time with, but can never fuck! You can find new ways to please her, and she'll never let you get away, because you're the guy she can't replace.