Why do guys think- I wanna make you the mother of my kids is a compliment?

[lillie_mie]

[Anonymous]

Well, I assume it's because that shows trust in him. Just because a woman chooses a guy to be the father of her kids doesn't mean she made a good choice. In fact most women today frequently make very bad choices. But when a woman makes that choice she's saying I trust that you're always going to care for and protect us. If a guy is a decent guy he should consider that his highest calling as a man.

[Avicenna]

Well, it is one because it means he thinks you’re wife and mother material. Now, of course it generally doesn’t come off that way, so it should only be said to a partner you’re in a stable relationship with.

[strateguy632]

they, not me assume your goal is to have a family, so they want you in that common picture. but i interpreted that phrase"i wanna make a baby" so do not say it.

[EricSummer]

In a way it is the ultimate compliment, but it is too blunt and direct. For someone you just met it is grossly inappropriate

[Iron_Man]

Who says that

[lillie_mie]

Some guys expect you to blush at the statement, but that's like a threat to me Sir.

[Iron_Man]

Weird

[In_Trance]

Guys are dumb