1. Is black women your preference or do you have a specific type of black women you prefer?
2. Did you experience any kind of discrimination within your family or friends for liking black women?
4. would you date a black woman again or are open to dating a black woman?
P. s if you don't like black women don't comment here or your answer will be deleted. Thanks😀
1. Black women are not my preference; women (real women with real vaginas) are my preference and that can include Black women like, Jackie, a woman whom I was good friends with around 1994-1995 but I won't show her picture because she is a something of a public figure (and has been in beauty contests and recently won one). Jackie is about 54 now.
2. I've never been given shit over it, but I never advertised a preference for it either.
3. There is no Question 3.
4. If I was younger and single, I would be open to it, yes.
My friend Jackie is a woman whom I think we both knew I had some sexual tension. I found rather hot, not just because of her attractiveness, but also because she was intelligent, had confidence, and, frankly, was the coolest woman I ever knew. She had White boyfriends - more than 1 at the time - too. I was also heartbroken (still am) over another girl, so I was really out of the loop. Jackie did marry a White guy though and she has lovely mixed-race kids.
However, back in 1995 when I was 32 and she was 26, if I had the opportunity to have actually dated her, I would have. I was very impressed with her and her Blackness had little to do with it (although she did joke with me "I have a Black girl's butt." and, well, she did).
My last girlfriend was black. So yes, I have dated black women. To your questions:
1. Is black women your preference or do you have a specific type of black women you prefer?
I do find some black women extremely attractive. Specific type of black woman? Not really. Like a woman of any color, if I find her attractive I will know it when I see her.
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2. Did you experience any kind of discrimination within your family or friends for liking black women?
The only discrimination I experienced when I was with her was from black men. They used to call her all kinds of horrible things (whore, bitch, n**, you name it) for being with a white guy. Sometimes they would even do it in public. It was disgusting. I had a few family members who disapproved. But it wasn't "discrimination." It was just their views and opinions. They did not treat her badly they treated her with respect because it was my decision to be with her so they accepted it even though they didn't approve.
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4. would you date a black woman again or are open to dating a black woman?
To be honest I am not sure. I don't have many opportunities to meet black women these days so I think it is unlikely I will meet someone black. I would not be closed to it, but she would have to be exceptional (like my ex was). But that is true of any woman I would date. She would have to be exceptional no matter what color she is.
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The black woman I dated was one of the most beautiful people I have ever known in my life both inside and out. She is an amazing person who I greatly admire to this day. I never would have believed that we would have had such a great relationship coming from completely different backgrounds in every way. And I mean COMPLETELY different. But somehow we connected and it was a beautiful thing.
1. I have no preference as to skin color. I've dated only one black women and she was one of the kindest people I ever met, so it was obviously a positive experience.
2. I found people would do a double-take when we were out together in public, but no discrimination in my family. They liked her a lot. Her parents passed away and her sister was really nice to me.
4. Yes, I would date a black women again. If the one I dated years ago had not moved away because of her job, I think we would still be together. She was an awesome person! I still keep in touch now and then, just because I like to know she's doing well.
1 yes. It's been my experience that black women are more accepting and verbally honest. I've never had to worry what a black woman has thought, 😆 they've always told me. Honesty and communication is a big thing with me. If we can't communicate it's not going to work.
2. With my family, no. With a aquaintances (not friends), Nothing overt. I think there will always be some people that are uncomfortable with interracial relationships and don't quite know what to say. That's thier problem not mine, and I hope not hers. She's never said anything to me if she felt this.
4. Yes I would.
The overwhelming majority of women for the past ten or so years have been non-white.
1. I like fit women. If she's black fine. If she's white fine. Just so long as she takes care of herself. Statistically that's getting rarer and rarer in the black community though.
2. Not really. Not sure if any of the Hers had issues with her family, but if so i never heard about it.
4. Sure.
1. No black women are not my preference but I’ve definitely been with some pretty stunning black women.
2. Unfortunately yes. I’m not going to into to much detail but at one point i did have to deal with insensitivity and while I was able to keep it away from exes it still bothered me.
4. If I happen to fall for a black woman id absolutely pursue a relationship.
My ideal Nubian Goddess is full figured, fairly uninhibited and if I'm really lucky, mean, selfish and arrogant. I've never experienced any pushback from my friends or family, and I wouldn't let it affect me if I did. I've dated Black women exclusively for more than thirty years, and have no intention of changing my preference for them.
1. Not really. I prefer women who have the body type of Gabriel Union.
2. Nope, but it was in college and they weren't aware that I was seeing anyone at the time. However, I was dating a Latina and they were aware and unphased. So it probably wouldn't have been an issue if they knew.
4. Sure.
1. I'm attracted to women in general. There are beautiful women of all races, and unattractive women of all races. But there's something intoxicating about black women for me. So yes, I suppose I do prefer black women. I'm especially attracted to very dark-skinned black women, and the curvier the better.
2. No.
4. It's been years since I dated a woman who isn't black.
1- Yes black women are my preference.
2- Not at all.
3- Hell yeah I'm so down to date a black woman.
Unfortunately, there are not many black women around me so I'm trying to get to know someone online.
I’m currently dating one no not my preference
no discrimination
I’d date one again
1. I have no preference when it comes to hair, skin, or eye color.
2. None.
4. Yes.
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