Anyone still searching for their twin flame?

[TrueMystique]

I am 28 & have thought I met my person many times now, but it never lasts. I’m so exhausted of trying. It’s truly ridiculous how many people I have dated & went on dates with. I feel like I will never find my person. Anyone going through the same?

[MrWolf]

I can relate a little bit. Dating this days is a horror show nobody wants to watch. Where the problem lies even I don't know. Is it woman is it man? But the thing is we all are to blame because we expect things to be normal in our kind of a way.

Dating used to be fun before. Now feels like a chore, like a job nobody wants to do. Because we judge a person by what they have achieved and how much money, fame etc. He or she has and that's kind wrong. How about what's behind all that fake glamour.

Do I search I'd say not anymore, not because I've given up I just don't bother if I meet anyone by any chance and we click sure. But ain't chasing stara anymore.

[TrueMystique]

I completely agree.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

I think searching for fire generally gets you burnt. Search for warmth and you can occasionally feel something really hot.

[TrueMystique]

I agree. I like this sentiment.

[Spongebobssocks]

"Twin flame" doesn't exist. Being in a relationship means to be mature enough to make the DESITCION to work in a team. It is about commitment. If one side doesn't show it, the relationship will end.

[TrueMystique]

I agree. I just want someone that doesn’t lead me on & then cheat/lie. It’s been difficult to find someone genuine.

[Spongebobssocks]

i understand. It can be hard. My tips would be, make sure to share less than your partner does in the beginning. (Don't get too emotionally invested) and don't stress it. If he/she loves bombs you in the beginning it is a sign it won't last. So take your time, learn to enjoy your own company and naturally grow into the relationship. It can also help to talk about each other morals so you know who you are talking too.

[MementoMori777]

i think "twin" is your problem, no one is really ever the same, not even close either, go for someone you like, you'll be surprised of how wonderful it can be

[TrueMystique]

Yeah. I don’t want them to be the same. I want my person.

[TrueMystique]

I keep getting used.

[MementoMori777]

well then go for what makesvyou feel loved and makes your heart beat fast, not for whats physically deceiving

[jojoiwiwbwjo]

I believe in sexual relationships until love or fitness for motherhood shows up.

[Anonymous]

you will most likely never find the perfect guy. You have to find an acceptable guy or get burned and become a left over woman.

[TrueMystique]

I don’t want perfect. I know perfect doesn’t exist.