Guys, Do guys prefer to pursue women or be pursued by women?

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There is this guy I work with that I like. Let's call him James. I feel like he might like me too from things our mutual friends said and how they act; they tend to tease us about each other. But one of our coworkers/friends recently asked me if I liked anyone. It was kind of a loaded question to get me to confess I had a crush on James, and he even said, "I bet you like James." He told me I should go for it and ask him out, but I'm not sure. I feel like if he liked me enough to date me, he would have asked me out, and I really don't want to embarrass myself, especially at work. Do some guys prefer to be asked out by women?

Guys, Do guys prefer to pursue women or be pursued by women?
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