On a first date, if you knew your date could not tell any lies, what five questions would you DEFINITELY want answered?

[Anonymous]

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

1. Tell me who you really are when no one sees you. What are your biggest fears and biggest dreams?

2. What’s something you like and you dislike in me and in yourself?

3. I’ll tell him what I am like and I’ll ask. “Are you willing to work it out and accept me the way I am?”

4. Have you ever cheated? If so, why?

5. Do you want to be loved by me and are you willing to love me back?

I don’t know for a first date but I’d ask those if I knew he couldn’t tell a lie.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Oh and 2nd question is important because I think I am often misunderstood so I would like to know what he dislikes in me, so I could self-respect and try to improve or help him see my perspective on those matters.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

*self-reflect

[Asker]

No. 3 is so good. That would save sooo much time and energy just knowing that up front.

[DizzyDesii]

Do you find me physically attractive? Are you a single man looking to get into a serious faithful/committed/monogamous relationship (hopefully with me)? Do you see yourself having kids while in your 20s? How often do you smoke/drink/party if at all? How would you rate our level of chemistry out of 10 so far?

[Asker]

A couple people asked your first question and I agree, like if you don't even find the person personally attractive, what are they doing, just waiting for a moment to politely or impolitely get out of the date or are they just hoping to have a one night stand and ghost.

[inhua]

1) are you on this date for me or just my money?

2) what is your body count?

3) are you willing to sign a prenup for your soulmate?

4) would you ever falsely accuse someone of rape?

5) this is my best mate Chad who really likes you. would you like to ditch this date and leave with him instead?

Chad is a 6'3 millionaire with 50 million social media followers

[cosmosis181]

All excellent questions that any halfway decent guy would ask-and that the vast majority of women would duck and dodge the answers to harder than Muhammad Ali.

[inhua]

@cosmosis181 nah they can't duck and dodge because they can't tell lies

[cosmosis181]

🤔🤔now that IS true... God, I'd pay a NICE amount to be sitting 10 feet away at a table with a 😊😊😊look, sipping away, trying unbelievably hard not to laugh at what would most certainly be a torturous look on her face, having to answer honestly.🤣

[Juxtapose]

Sssooooo you wouldn't ditch a first date if some woman of your fantasies came along?

[cosmosis181]

There is no woman of my fantasies. I gave up dating, socializing, wanting to get to know them etc... period. I don't care about anything but money. That's REAL honesty that people say they want-but are so terrified of🤣

[inhua]

@Juxtapose that woman would be the one on the date plus men are expected to pay for the first date too and I don't like wasting money

[BlazeitYo]

Orlly now? Is that so…. lol

[rukus88]

danm those are all really good

[Juxtapose]

1. What is the worst thing you have ever done?

2. What is the greatest thing you have ever done?

3. Are you capable of loving a lover more than yourself?

4. Are you a threat to me in any way?

5. Are you more slutty or prudish?

[Asker]

Pretty good list of questions. I like that there is opportunity for them to tell you their worst and best self. No. 4 though...yikes, some of these make me wonder what has happened to you guys that this would be a top 5 question.

[Juxtapose]

Thanks! I know everybody has their secrets so I would be fairly understanding with their worst self. Seeing their best is useful too, you get to see their peak and valley.

Once you meet people who have killed others and talk to them about it, you really start to realize that people can be very dangerous if you're not careful. And I like to be tied up so I want to know for sure if I'm going to be killed or not!

[Simslover92]

1. Do you seeing this possibly going anywhere?

2. Are you just on this first date for sex?

3. Do you think paying for dinner means a girl should put out?

4. How many partners have you had?

5. Do you expect a kiss at the end of the date or more?

[Billlewis]

I'd want to know how recently she's had intercourse, if the guy she had intercourse with climaxed inside her and most importantly, if she planned on seeing him again. I much prefer to date a woman who isn't exclusive to me, especially since I must date women who enjoy keeping me strictly celibate and 100% pussy free at all times throughout our relationship.

[InspiringMind]

Why? Specifically the last part.

[Billlewis]

@InspiringMind Why do I prefer to be kept strictly celibate? Because not getting any pussy makes me so incredibly sweet, attentive and generous, and the jealousy and frustration I experience when she's having sex with other guys just drives me absolutely crazy...

[Izzy_3991]

1. What are your religious beliefs?
2. Are you seeking marriage?
3. Do you want children someday?
4. Do you have any nasty habits? (porn viewing, lusting after other women, cheating, smoking cigarettes/vapes or consuming alcohol often and to the point of being drunk, or swearing excessively)
5. What are your long-term career goals and how well do you spend your money?

[exitseven]

1) are you here because you really wanted to go out with me?
2) Do you like guys that are traditional and will treat you like a gentleman would?
3) What would be your favorite kind of date?
4) Have you ever been in love before?
5) What do you think about sex on the first date?

[Unit1]

1) Are you a gold digger OR do you believe men are supposed to be your wallet? Is splitting the bill a dealbreaker to you?

2) Have you cheated previously? If so, what made you do it?

3) Are you monogamous or polygamous?

4) Would you dump me or cheat on me if an upgrade came along?

I need only 4 no-lie questions.

[Agape93]

Have you ever done any sexual offense, to whom and why?

Are you fully ok with an open relationship?

Are you a murderer, thief or drug dealer?

Are you open minded?

Are you expecting marriage and kids?

[Boomchakalaca]

1. How many chicks have you banged?
2. What do you do for a living?
3. Do you want a family?
4. Are you financially stable?
5. What is your deepest darkest secret?

[Asker]

No. 5....good question. No matter who it was, I'd be scared to know that day 1 because no matter what they say, that comes with a lot of judgement, but I guess get it out in the open now rather than later.

[Meropatrick]

-are u a bully

-how nasty u can treat someone who never did anything bad to u

-do u have empathy

-do u lack the ability to treat ur partner with respect

-What is ur real truth when u become rich

[Asker]

Ouch...who hurt you?

[Boomchakalaca]

😂 omg the passive aggressiveness

[Meropatrick]

@Boomchakalaca if my mother asked my father those questions and got honest answers she would have spared herself decades of domestic abuse. Its not passive aggressive its wise. But i think u r too young to understand that

[Boomchakalaca]

[TrillXHippy]

1) Will there be another date?

2) Without looking anywhere else but into my eyes the entire time cause it’s going to be a problem what do you like about me? If she stopped looking me in my eyes nothing else she said or is going to say matters anymore. If she can’t keep a straight face while saying that she’s just wasting my time

3) Why are you here on a date with me?

4) What are your likes and dislikes?

5) What are your hobbies?

[BlazeitYo]

Just one question would answer them all.

What do you want from me?

All relationships are give and take and are never the fairytale “unconditional love” that they’re made out to be. Best get the important questions out of the way first.

[Asker]

What if the answer is, "I want to go out on a date with you today." Did that really tell you much about them other than, they want the date.

[Mallic00]

1. Have you ever cheated, if so why?

2. Have you maintained a part/full time job?

3. Are you willing to maintain your own income if we tie the knot?

4. What kind of sexual relationship do you want?

5. Can I trust you to stick by me during rough times, such as if I lost my job?

[Asker]

I feel like the genie nitpicking your five wishes for technicalities, but if you asked no. 2, one could say yes, as in, at some point in their life, but not now and still be telling the truth. Also not sure how number 2 and 5 would work. You want her to stick by you if you lost your job, but if she lost her job and couldn't currently maintain it, are you out?

[Mallic00]

Depends on the reason. If she was let go due to factors beyond her control then yeah i would stick by her, but if she lost her job due to her screwing up either through embezzlement, or getting caught in a scandal with the manager no.

[sheenagwapa]

1. Do you believe in Lord Jesus?
2. Are yoy the faithful/committed type?
3. Are you a good provider or at least responsible?
4. What do you think of a woman who see herself equal as you?
5. Do you smell good?

[andreasderjuengere]

#1 What's your REAL age?

#2 What's your REAL weight?

#3 How old are the photos that had initially attracted me?

#4 Do your parents - or kids - still talk with you?

#5 Who is Jimi Page

[Nikki1989]

I certainly wouldn't ask any questions that are none of my business, unlike some men on here. Jeez, they have some nerve.

[Asker]

I think the idea is that their date couldn't lie, not that they'd ever actually in real life ask this to a woman if they intended to have a second date and to be fair, some women on here have asked similar questions.

[DextroShade]

1. Have you ever cheated?
2. What is your body count?
3. Who ended your last relationship and why?
4. Do you actually find me attractive or are you just interested in my money?
5. What's your relationship with your dad like?

[Asker]

What if the relationship with dad is bad because the dad was an abuser. What does that actually help you to learn? People don't get to choose their family. by the way: not about me, my dad is awesome, lol.

[DextroShade]

That's a red flag, guys also don't chose to be short but they get disqualified for that all the time.

[Kinkyhubby]

Are you married?

Are you a cheat?

Why did your last relationship end?

Do you like and enjoy sex? Not on the 1st Daye but while In a relationship, or do you slow down on sex later in a relationship?

Are you trustworthy?

[Asker]

Can you imagine if the answer was yes, yes, it hasn't because of 1 and 2. Then three would be moot.

[Kinkyhubby]

True. The first 2 question makes you ready to go

[rukus88]

what's body count? ever cheated? have kids? shortest amount of time knowing someone before sex? How important is social media to you?

[Jemini_Crocket]

Are you a faithful person?
How much attracted to me you really?
What are your true life goals?
Your toxic traits?
Are you over your ex?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Who are you?
Who am I?
Where are we?
What's going on?
What?

(In the voice of Marl Wahlberg)

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Mark*

[gothbxtch]

do you like me? do you want a family in the future? what are your political views? what music do you listen to? are you enjoying this date thus far?

[Iron_Man]

This is to much, to ask on a first date, bug how many body counts do you have? I also would ask, are you a drug user? Are you Christian? What’s your sexuality? Do you want a family with children?

[KrakenAttackin]

Body count.

Toxic traits.

How often do you cheat.

Mental illness issues.

Are you a gold digger.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

#1: Do you love God and Jesus Christ?

#2: Have you cheated before and why?

#3: Sexual body count?

#4: Do you want to get married?

#5: How important is money in a relationship to you?

[Raaj4you]

1. I'll ask about her parents, siblings. 2. About her education, job, hobbies, interests, career goals and future plans. 3. What kind of guy she is looking for? 4. About her past relationships 5. Would you like to meet me again?

[Clyde_123]

Are you married?
Are you really attracted to me?
How many dates before you have sex with someone?
Why did you date me?
Are you seeing someone other than me?

[mommymommymommy]

Who are you

What do you want

When were you born

Where are you from

Why are you single

[Anonymous]

1. Are you attracted to me?

2. How many relationships have you had?

3. How many guys have you slept with?

4. What are toxic traits?

5. Are you financially secure.

[EaterPeter]

Deal makers / turn ons

Deal breakers / turn offs

Dreams

Goals

Kinks / fantasies / fetishes

?

[scintojoseph]

What's your relationship with your dad like?
What is your end game goal with me?
What are your red flags?
What do you do for a living?
What's the catch?

[LiamJHayden]

I think I'd prefer to have her eventually voluntarily tell me her secrets.

[shades777]

you paying, you got kids, we fucking, you got stds, you give head.


yep that sums it up

[cosmosis181]

Just 1. WHY are you here right now?

[OddBeMe]

Am I getting sex?
No.
Goodbye.

[Boomchakalaca]

[OddBeMe]

@Boomchakalaca whered you get my picture!

[Boomchakalaca]

In the degenerates search lol

[monghjay2]

i dont do dates and do not care

[Boomchakalaca]

[monghjay2]

@Boomchakalaca

you think thats what i look like

[Boomchakalaca]

🫣 maybe worse

[monghjay2]

@Boomchakalaca

ohh hun not even close

I look better then that lol

[Boomchakalaca]

No?, How about this?

[monghjay2]

@Boomchakalaca

not even my skin color so not even close

[Boomchakalaca]

Omg

[monghjay2]

@Boomchakalaca

hahahaha lol where are you getting these men hahahah
omg i look nothing like them

[Boomchakalaca]

From my own portfolio 💼

[monghjay2]

@Boomchakalaca

well i look nothing like these men lol