Question below?

[Anonymous]

Do you think when a man doesn’t message you for over 24 hours (yet posts on his story and likes pictures) then finally responds to you it is disrespectful? I’ve unfollowed him for this reason but he’s not my boyfriend so now I feel I may have been dramatic - but I can’t help but think anyone who really is interested in you would just never do that.

[provokeesmokee]

No.

I can see why he takes time. If you're tracking all his activity, waiting for a chance to harp on him for your own insecurities (like being "disrespected" because he has a life and interests outside of you), you sound exhausting to deal with.

I can understand why he'd need to take time to decompress and just vibe on his own time before interacting with you.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t say it’s disrespectful, just disinterested. You have to keep in mind that you are being prioritized as a girlfriend, and clearly not as someone he’s interested in pursuing. You are better off without him.

[Anonymous]

Why are women so obsessed with how long it takes a guy to respond to texts? i see these questions here all the time, and they are always from females.

[Jazzy54]

I really don’t like it when someone ghosts me. 😤Anyway, it usually means he’s not interested.

[Anonymous]

Either he’s not that interested or he’s playing games. Both are no no’s, you did the right thing.

[Anonymous]

I don't blame you, it seems you are an after hought to him.