Why do women try to look hot when they go out rather then while they are with their partner?

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Sarahr123 · Accepted Answer

It’s attention seeking and validating seeking behaviour. Same goes for women who seek many random followers on Instagram, TikTok etc… they’re not loyal. They’re always looking for something else. If they have a fight with their partner they’ll start talking to other boys for validation. They’re not secure in themselves. Do you know what women are the most secure? The one’s who have everything to flaunt but still choose to hide it. Women who choose to be modest in this hypersexual society - especially in Western society. Women who choose to stay indoors and not attend parties, clubs and hookah lounges - especially if she is a young lady. Those type of women deserve the world but guess what? Men don’t want a good woman. Men will treat the good woman like total and utter garbage and completely destroy her whilst they go after the exact girls that you see men complain about all over social media. They ignore the existence of good girls and if they ever come across one they damage the poor girl.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I only dress hot if around him. Why go out without him and dress like an attention seeker if I’m taken

AaronKrieger · Accepted Answer

When you are with someone, then you know about the bad parts of them as well. You're meant to be comfortable with each other and be vulnerable. I'd rather my partner be comfortable if we're at one of our places and to see that side she doesn't show to the world.

However, in public people like to look nice for just overall general opinion and self-esteem. We all put on an act to an extent in public for a plethora of reasons, so it's different.

ZackBan · Accepted Answer

Same reason men gain weight when they settle down.
You tend to lossen up around a person you share affection with so you won't keep your appearance on point at all times.

But when you go out you'll revert back to it because no one will go out looking like a hobo

_SillyShoes_ · Answer

I think its because that clothing and shoes - they're just not comfortable.

Now, I don't dress like that anyways, I just wear what I find appealing on myself regardless of where I am or who I'm with, so just being myself.

But yup, if a woman dresses very 'femme fatale' when she's looking for a mate and then suddenly stops, she knows it attracts men, but now that she has one she can 'be herself', which might not be that fair towards that particular man, but it it what it is...

Anonymous · Answer

Women who do this are NOT loyal and they NEVER will be. They are dressing like this because they are USING their boyfriend and they are ALWAYS looking for something that they perceive as "better".

Honestly.

It's that simple.

When you are devoted to your partner you're not dressing skimmy or "hot" - hot nowadays usually means dressing like a whore - in public. A DECENT woman who is LOYAL to her partner dresses attractively but not overly revealing, etc.

Sharkstealth · Answer

You got me. There was a girl I used to know that wouldn't wear makeup when we had sex even if asked her to. If we ran in to each other out and about she always had it on.

EricSummer · Answer

When they are at home with their partner they do not specially dress up as they relax and are more comfortable showing their true selves.

When going out it's just part of dressing for the occasion.

The watch out is when she dresses up more than usual for visiting "just a friend". Also when she dresses up a lot hotter when going out with the girls rather than with you, for similar places.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, they already got their partner.  They’re trying to attract other male attention when they go out. That’s the truth.

LazerBean · Answer

A lot of times, looking better than the women around them is more important than looking good for men. Women can be low-key brutal to eachother.

Miristheiss · Answer

Attention and validation.

Actually if your lady is doing that, dressing like a bum around you but wanting to go out without you a lot and she is dressing hot for that... that is a sign to dump her because she is no good.

DermalPunch · Answer

Most guys prefer looking at the women on social media these days so what's even the point anymore?

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

Maybe it gives them the confidence they need to be out in the modern world.  That's why I try to look good. Women aren't looking at me anyway, so it has little to do with that

BeMuse · Answer

Women are strange right?

ariadneR · Answer

I'm the opposite, I dress hot, when I'm going out with him. He deserves that at the very least. He is such a good man, he deserves to feel like a million bucks when he's with me

Meropatrick · Answer

We all try to dress our best when we go out even men. Humans in general like to Look good because we are social creatures we like getting other people approval and validation. Its biology

jahaims · Answer

The ones that do that have low self worth and get their worth based on how others think they look.

Anonymous · Answer

because our parents would bombard us with questions on why we look so nice today and ask who are we trying to impress and honestly just try to bring down our self esteem. so... yeah...

Apple1996 · Answer

We are more comfortable around our man and don't feel the need to dress up

jshm2 · Answer

They don't.  They dress as they want, and you assume its "hot".

justabuddy · Answer

Not all weman are the same. But a lot of club girls dress hot to simply fit in with the crowd, or impress other girls. I do think dressing up for your so is important, but there are other reasons as well.

John_Doesnt · Answer

Because women are always shopping for a "better man".

DextroShade · Answer

They are hoes who want attention from other dudes.

Christoff92 · Answer

Theirs a thing called double standards not all of them obviously 😐

BarryLiverstone · Answer

People enjoy dressing up for attention.

Nikki1989 · Answer

This is news to me.

Boomchakalaca · Answer

I do both.

Anonymous · Answer

Girls njoy attention from other guys

Lis-the-librarian · Answer

Cause they hope a better men comes.

RingOfFire · Answer

HAHA! Great question!

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

Women love attention.

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