Are high heels, makeup and pushup bras all a lie?

[muscles_glasses]

I recently went on a date with a gorgeous women and we ended up spending the night together. I loved how she looked without any makeup on, no pushup bra and her high heels off. I wish she had just showed up to our date look more like her natural self

[kylee2437]

Why are you offended by a woman putting efforts into her looks for a first date?

[Smashingdoozy]

No they're not a lie. She put effort into her appearance and you don't like that?

[fonduegirl]

She's probably one of those effortlessly gorgeous people or he's just simping

[Smashingdoozy]

@anon1903 probably, he also probably went out with her after seeing her with all these things In photos... Like what did he expect? Her to go on a date in sweats 😭

[muscles_glasses]

@Smashingdoozy its complicated

[Smashingdoozy]

No it's not.

[fonduegirl]

"honestly I wish I was the one wearing the short skirt, blouse, heels, pushup bra and makeup" is his reason. He said so himself

[muscles_glasses]

yes I said that... so?

[chrissykerdock]

you must be bi-sexual... all that stuff are girl things... and you seem to not like a woman be a woman because your gay or bye... not there's anything with it... just sayin' you have a problem with it and that may be the reason.

[nolookingbackx]

Doesn't make sense to me. So if a guy prefers natural women it means that he's gay or bi? A woman without makeup, pushup bra and high heels is still a woman and can be feminine. Ridiculous statement, with all due respect.

[chrissykerdock]

@nolookingbackx i don't like guys who want you to not wear heels make up etc... they're intrusive... your not smart enough to realize what he's doing.

[fonduegirl]

It's got nothing to do with his sexuality, ma'am.

[fonduegirl]

Secondly, everyone has preferences. He listed out his.

Nothing wrong with that.

I'm only concerned if he imposes his opinions on her.

[chrissykerdock]

@anon1903 yes all things women wear and do... make up the heels... take that away from her she's oppressed... maybe you don't wear or use those things so it doesn't bother you.

[fonduegirl]

He didn't oppress her. He's just saying.

He clarified on my og opinion.

[fonduegirl]

And no, not all women want to do makeup. It's a choice.

[chrissykerdock]

@anon1903 but don't criticize the one's that do either... i don't believe in giving up shortskirts make up heels and bras because a man says so

[nolookingbackx]

*You're. And you're not smart enough to read with understanding. He only shared his preference with us. He never said that he would not let a woman do these things.

[fonduegirl]

I don't.

And neither has the asker.

He just stated his preference. Which is okay, unless he throws a fit the next time he finds concealer in her bag. Only then that's a problem.

[fonduegirl]

@nolookingbackx exactly. I know there's a lot of makeup shaming on GaG, but this one sounds like a decent guy. Give him a break!

[chrissykerdock]

@anon1903 he came across as restricting and didn't like those things... i would be insulted and felt under orders if a guy said that to me... i read the other comments other women wouldn't like it either

[fonduegirl]

Thats fair enough.

But does it give you the right to insult him back?

Two wrongs don't make a right.

[chrissykerdock]

@anon1903 too often a guy will come on here and say women shouldn;t wear make up... but this one is against high heels and bras... a little too restrictive... we are women and we need to be women.

[fonduegirl]

Of course. But why are attacking gays and bisexuals here?

[fonduegirl]

^you

[fonduegirl]

If you think he's an as_shole tell him so!

No need to take your piss on the LGBT community

[chrissykerdock]

@anon1903 a guy who says thos things might be gay... and there's nothing wrong with that... your saying there's something with that.

[fonduegirl]

It's harmful to stereotype.

[fonduegirl]

Men are of all kinds, just because one of them doesn't like heels doesn't make him gay or anything.

[fonduegirl]

Please don't do this to the LGBT community. We already have enough misconceptions and confusion. Don't create more.

[chrissykerdock]

@anon1903 then why post what he posted it's intent is to degrade women and oppress them nothing about lgbt other than he may be gay which there's nothing wrong with it.

[fonduegirl]

You're causing as much damage as him.

[chrissykerdock]

@anon1903 no read the other comments and get back to me

[fonduegirl]

I did. Nobody is putting the blame of his faulty minset on his sexuality.

[chrissykerdock]

@anon1903 they didn't like it... but that's bullshit natural beauty if that's the case then your gay not that there's anyting wrong with it.

[fonduegirl]

Still not understanding why you're dragging LGBT into this

[chrissykerdock]

@anon1903 because he's gay or may be... i have a friends with benefits and he wants me to wear shortskirts heels and make up everytime... just saying... but your upset about lgbt i feel there's nothing wrong with being gay.

[fonduegirl]

It doesn't matter if he is. Just stop spreading misinformation!!

[fonduegirl]

Of course there's not! But you're promoting stereotypes!

[chrissykerdock]

@anon1903 that's my opinion are you his girlfriend

[muscles_glasses]

@chrissykerdock honestly I wish I was the one wearing the short skirt, blouse, heels, pushup bra and makeup

[chrissykerdock]

well as a woman i like those things and would hate to give them up.

[nolookingbackx]

No, I don't think so if you still found her very attractive without make-up.

[fonduegirl]

That's her choice, isn't it

[muscles_glasses]

obviously. Im just saying I think she looks better natural

[fonduegirl]

That's good