Don’t you agree that dating is so hard for men?

[Anonymous]

I’ve seen girls on here be like, all you have to be is funny………I wish. In fact the other day girls were like you’re so funny.

I’m over 6 feet and I work out, dress well, work hard on myself etc…..

I do all the right things and finding a girl is so ridiculously hard.

I agree it’s bullshit for men

I disagree

[D_Bone_Steak]

I generally agree, but also think it's just a matter of hitting the weights. I mean let us be real about it... why does a chick get with a guy that makes all the money and then goes and fucks the pool cleaner guy? There is a reason for both. The reasons are different though. As a guy you can looks max, bux max, game max, but none of that is going to hold a candle against gym maxing. Those other guys get used and then cheated on for the gym maxing dudes. Is what it is.

For me personally... when it comes to chicks... I just want to be wanted for lust reasons. If she wants me for money then who knows who she'll fuck behind my back.

[dreamer123912]

The dating market is brutal for guys however girls have it very tough too (believe it or not.) I have been on a few dates/kissed girls at a party - maybe 5 times and had one LTR. I am 25. It is easier to meet a girl if you have zero standards but if you have somewhat high standards like me it is extremely hard.

However I still prefer being a guy. If you are a girl you have to deal with a lot of sh*tty guys that will treat you like crap. It must be hard to choose a guy for women, especially when you are driven by emotions over logic.

Some tips that work for me that may help you: be authentic to yourself, show women your strengths, have lots of friends, be kind/respectful, be emotionally strong, smile a lot, work on yourself. Guys have it tough but like I said, girls got it tough too.

[Avicenna]

It's hard to find a really good woman, but not one in general

[Asker]

Well you have some super powers

[Avicenna]

LOL, no. It's easier at my age to meet women my age, and I think women were better when I was in my 20s, but you can do it today as well.

[Asker]

Well you must have a lot of money and swagger or something

[Avicenna]

OK, what do YOU think the impediment (s) is (are) to you getting a girlfriend?

[Asker]

Well you didn’t grow up in the social media world where every girl is exposed to the best guys on the planet

[Avicenna]

I'm in it now and I occasionally date young women who did grow up with social media. That said, you do have a point.

But here's the thing, you can still get a girlfriend even if it isn't your dream woman

[Avicenna]

What happens when you approach women or otherwise try to get to know them?

[Anonymous]

I mean yeah, but it's mainly because men today do not discern women. Most of women today are undateable. I don't think that most guys realize today most women are not worth investing in. I have many example good women in my life so I'm blessed/cursed with this knowledge of what constitutes a quality woman. It allows me not to get tangled up with all the tiger traps that are out there. The drawback is I see the wasteland that is the female population.

I think the main problem today is too many men have forgotten that they are men. They erroneously determine thier value by the amount of women they attract. This is of course backwards. A man is just focused on being a man, and then women just follow.

I don't worry about how many women are interested in me. Only the type of women interested in me. It doesn't matter if 100 are drawn to you if all 100 of them are trash.

[Erroin]

I wouldn’t say it’s hard but men have been castrated. They really don’t know what chicks want anymore because movies and tv have taught them all the wrong stuff. Some say women want assholes, some believe that effort is the key to “winning her” it’s neither

[inhua]

no matter how awesome you think you are, there are simply men out there whom women consider to be better than you

feminists love to preach equality but they don't actually believe in equality. they'd think they are superior to a broke Jonah Hill but inferior to a billionaire Chris Hemsworth

[BlackJeep]

It's not hard at all. And is easier to date gorgeous women than average looking women. If you're having a hard time then you're not doing the right things. I'm bald, 5'10" 210lbs and I dated former models your age. Good women and the best looking women are not on dating apps and nobody approaches them so once you figure that out, you will have no competition. Trust me

[integrale77]

I'd say to any woman who disagrees for experimentation write a dating profile for a man maybe copy one from a different site then see how quickly you get a response from a woman!

[Alex-Snow]

I just graduated high school. COVID fucked things up bad for high school kids. Dating was tough so many of us sexted or did some video sex and we all jerked off tons cause we could not socialize for 2 years.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Pretty much none of that matters, compatibility is what matters.

The people who say dating is easy, are not picky.

[boobliker]

I never found it hard to get a date even now at almost 70 I could dat 35 year old girls and had offers on here too.

[BarryLiverstone]

Dating is a challenge for everyone. It’s not easy to meet a total stranger and make them a significant part of our lives.

[gothbxtch]

i disagree

[Asker]

Women have sympathy but lack empathy.

They have no understanding or no clue of the male experience.
You lot are clueless that’s why women need feminism as you lot have no idea how shit most men’s lives are

[dreamer123912]

You need to be positive dude. Dating is frustrating but don't be toxic.