Why do girls make things so complicated early on?

[red324]

They're either super clingy and move too fast too soon or they're the type that get upset easily over these little things, once again very early on like after only a couple of dates. So the first type makes me mad and the second one gets mad at me and both leave. lol

[Anonymous]

Why do guys make things so complicated early on? They're either super clingy and move too fast too soon or they're the type that get upset easily over these little things, once again very early on like after only a couple of dates. So the first type makes me mad and the second one gets mad at me and both leave. lol
See how I regurgitated that back at you? Because we get the same thing.

[Alli39]

Was about to post an opinion and then I saw this. Could not have said it better myself lol.

[CubsterShura]

Why do guys make things so complicated early on? Not being ready for commitment but still over enthusiastically declaring their commitment from the start, lovebombing at first then completely neglecting us later on, beating around the bush, being annoying then blaming us for being annoyed, looking to be mothered but also they don't want a mom in a relationship, and when confronted about their bratty behavior bringing up how they are emotionally wounded from dad scolding them when they were 13...

Humans are complicated, period.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Because even our desire for a relationship stems from our penis in the beginning
Takes a while to reach our heart

[noname9696]

Good Point.. agreed

[CubsterShura]

@WanderingLoveWizard yeah right like men are the only ones who ever get horny, get over yourselves.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Lol, ok

[D_Bone_Steak]

Yup... nothing better than someone pushing for marriage when I'm just here to get my dick wet.

Be me... lie. Get the vadge and then lose her number. She can call my phone that only works around WiFi all she wants. I'm gone... and I'm talking to her frens already.

[Stoner710]

Because that’s the whole point of dating why date somebody that you don’t intend to marry? It seems pointless to me.

[Starlove4]

The way that I got my boyfriend to fall in love with me was that I acted like he wasn’t a big deal. While other girls were acting entitled to his attention and text messages , i Went on with my life and never made a big deal if we didn’t talk or if we did. He said it made him want me more because I wasn’t too focused on him and I didn’t try to take away his freedom. And from there on he started blowing my phone up with gm texts and planning dates. He started to become the one in his feelings whenever I didn’t text back. So I don't know maybe they don’t love themselves enough. Because I didn’t become this way until I became self sufficient and in love with myself. I just always was confident in myself and always knew that I don’t have to beg for attention.

[xutumx]

You’re attracting immature girls, look at yourself and ask yourself why and how are you attracting these type of girls, try going outside your comfort zone, look at the way a girl acts, how they act around their friends, how they dress, kinda study them

[VIVANT]

If you are annoyed early on you are incompatible & if you really think there are only two types of possible reactions to life, you might want to work on communicating.

I actually do not know what you are referring to from your post so it is very possible you and your partner do not know what is going on in each others minds.

we are all knowable but not without effort & not automatically

[madhatters4]

relationships can be complicated early on. simple as that. regardless of sex, orientation, age, etc.

[madhatters4]

so why can it be complicated? because it's two unique people trying to bond together into a relationship.

[VIVANT]

Best answer

[Mamaliv]

Maybe because your going for “girls” and not women? We’re all different, I know I give off the I’m not interested vibe because I don’t do either of the above.

[chevy1]

well my ex moved to fast on me i wanted to take it slow to know each other first but when i went up to his he just wanted to fuck the first night i went up fked bad man

[rm_llort]

There's actually a third type. They aren't too clingy and move at the right speed and are also not super insecure. In order to find them, you gotta drop the other two types immediately to decrease time wasted.

[genericname85]

cause when men wanna fuck, they can just go and get it. when women wanna fuck, they still gotta act like it's somewhat difficult so the guy doesn't think she's a cheap whore.

[Annie_LevelUP_ADC]

You just haven't met one of the chill ones like me, hey how you doin'?

[Anonymous]

Because of men. The problem is men never see the obvious.

[RyanK9b]

No accountability, typical woman

[CuriousMufuxka]

I've always enjoyed the first 5 months. That's the dick suckin, pussy on demand, get to play video games sometimes while having the cock deep throated good times!

[TheSpaceGnome]

I like clingy.

I don't like her moving too fast or getting upset easily though.

[RingOfFire]

Hormones. You have to learn to deal with them.

[hardboiledink]

They don't know what they want in life and don't have much besides their looks to go on

[TheMan35]

Everyone can be complicated. But in my opinion girls are more complicated than us. Because they are girls and they need special care :)

[Kacka]

i guess , sniffing mens reaction to every shitty situation she made up🤣🤣

[Reem12345reem]

most of the time it's the man's fault

[Subflics]

Is this one of those rhetorical questions

[RyanK9b]

Its biological. Their natural behavior

[BigDog1989]

As do men