Is this a cruel thing to say to someone looking for a "Pure" woman?

So I know there's a lot of talk about how "Incel" get their panties in a knot about women who fool around these days.

Honestly asking myself questions about my response to these guys would be

"Look here's the long and short of it. It's 2023 every woman you come across is somebodys "sloppy seconds" The only women these days who might actually be virgins are either religious or in middle school, and even in those cases it's not guaranteed.

Really, if you even think about going out with a girl, assume she's been run through by like 10 different guys before she came your way and will judge you accordingly. It's honestly best to just keep your expectations ranging from low to non existent, cause chances are she's already fucked guys who are better then you in every way and she'll move on once she gets bored.

Accept it or stay single for the rest of your life. Up to you."

DermalPunch

Explorer Age: 39

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So what I'm getting is you're insecure that you can't measure up to other men and you fantastical conclusion based on assumptions and your poor perception of yourself. And that is a girl you like's fault.

Makes sense.

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9 mo
You are blind, deaf and dumb. Let me word it in a way even a bimbo like you can understand.
Women in 2023 have likely all lost their v-card by the time they got into high school.
Expecting them to have a low body count is wishful thinking, especially after they graduate college.
If you're in a relationship with a woman, keep your expectations low so that when she eventually dumps you and move on it won't hurt as much.

Is that simple enough for you?

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DermalPunch

9 mo
No, I'm too stupid to understand. All the best kiddo.

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Asker

9 mo
Yeah fuck you too.

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DermalPunch

9 mo
No, sorry, you're not my type.

I don't know how you expect to land a pure woman with potty mouth like that.

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Asker

9 mo
I don't that's the thing. Im in my 30s I have absolutely zero delusions of getting with an even remotely virginal woman at my age.

I know most women at my age will likely already had at least 2-3 boyfriends before they came my way and are looking to settle down now that they had their fun.

Honestly the most I can hope for is that whoever I get stuck with doesn't abuse me and treat me like her personal atm.

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DermalPunch

9 mo
Well, clearly something has left you jaded and cynical. All you are doing is setting yourself up for misery with all this vitriol and assumptions.

This stinky attitude will teem off of you like a foul odor.

There are still plenty of women who don't sleep around. To be frank, I think there are a fair number of people who are waking up to the horrors of the dating scene. Just because someone is in the minority it doesn't mean they don't exist.

Date a younger age group if virginity is such an obsession for you.

But please, do deal with your pain and change your attitude. You won't get anyone worth being with with the attitude you have presently.

I imagine you will hurl some more profanity and insults at me since I am a "bimbo". But again, that's your issue and not mine.

Again, all the best.

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