Should I message him?

[Anonymous]

friends with benefits, sneaky link.. seeing for about 5 mths almost every week. Stopped messaging, I’m not the one to blow up anyone’s phone. Zero percent. Why do I miss his company? I honestly can’t remember last convo because I delete everything. It was normal talk tho. It’s been a week no contact. I’m thinking well shit if he was still interested he would hit me up. So f@ck it. Should I reach out? My ego or whatever has always held me back. At the same time we are just friends with benefits no strings attached …

[Anonymous]

Don’t you want more than casual sex for yourself? More than a man who’s fine going a whole week not speaking? You want company, maybe you feel lonely, but that guy has nothing substantial to offer.

[Asker]

I agree somewhat… it’s an arrangement. I’m not going into detail about my whole life decisions. He was offering me exactly what I needed.

[Opinion Owner]

friends with benefits is fine for a short term arrangement, and I think he was giving you what you needed at the time. But what happens when you start to catch feelings? Sex is incredibly intimate, it’s damn near impossible not to fall for the guy at some point. I think it would be disappointing and hurtful to be reminded that he doesn’t want anything serious. You’d be much better served finding a man who wants more from you than intimacy. Who values your presence in his life, is consistent, and treats you how you deserve to be treated. He’s out there.

[Asker]

Thank you very much! I needed to hear this as well!

[Opinion Owner]

No problem! Good luck out there!

[boobliker]

if you both had other partners then no you should not even get upset about it

[Avicenna]

Must be the sex

[Asker]

DAMN! You guessed it! Lol shit he even said it was the best he had. His ass said it first… and multiple times

[Avicenna]

Yup...

[Asker]

He lied right? Of course…… he did….

[In_Trance]

Move on. This one has passed