What do you bring to the table? š¤Ø
So, I like almost never disagree with Steve. And when woman ask for an honest, sincere and genuine man... well Steve is all that, and some woman no matter how much they say they want that... they really don't. And every time a man speaks "his" true its labeled toxic masculinity.
Now with all that said, I disagree with Steve on this point. I know what I bring to the table before I sit down. So yeah, I want to know what she has to offer. What does she bring to the table, because that will determine what type of relationship we have. If she doesn't like what I have to offer she can get up and walk at any given time, no harm, no foul.
But yes, once you make that commitment to a lady, it is ours, as a man, to protect that emotional bond, and to care and nurture it. Her happiness is a part of our shared happiness, and I have a responsibility to honor and strive to do my part it ensures her happiness, needs and wants matter. As much as she has the same responsibility to ensure my happiness, but more importantly to our shared happiness.
So, I think that is more of what Steve is speaking to. He is not saying a man responsibility to provide and care for woman, means control or manage her. And the same is true for woman and for her responsibilities.
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Yes and no, Heās not wrong about what men bring to the table is important. Yes men need to have a good paying job men need to be able to take care of a women and provide for her by getting up and going to work and making a living so that a women can stay home raise the kids make a home and cook.
heās wrong in the sense that women do need to bring something to the table beyond just looks. Yes guys are very visual, but guess what we can rent a nice care a luxury hotel for a night and spend 5000 dollars for a night to sleep with a lot of women who are beautiful, We donāt need women to be our friends we need women to be our partners. There a reason why gender roles existed until feminism came in and blew that all up. What do women need to bring to the table? Looks in 1 thing but women also need to be able to cook clean and take care of kids and sleep with their husband regardless if sheās in the mood or not. (This doesnāt mean rape this means you got a headache and your man is horny so you sleep with him regardless of the headache). Itās a partnership, because I can make my money go around sleep with hundreds of women without needing a wife or kids if Iām just going to be working and cooking cleaning as well. I donāt need a women whoās not going to be a wife. Thereās porn there sluts at the club I can bang and there porn on the computer, If a women isnāt doing what she needs to do to keep a man which is the traditional women roles and men need to do there traditional Man roles. This is why modern dating is fucked and why guys are going to Thailand in the Philippines to get women
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It takes BOTH to be a good partnership. Both should bring quality āto the tableā. There are lots of trashy women who have āproduced anotherā¦ā. Theyāre just as messed up as the immature guys out there having sex with them.
the biggest failure in the world is fathers not doing their job. And everyone will jump on the bandwagon and continue to accuse them of it, but the lazy bastard accusers do nothing to take responsibility either.
lots of parents have failed. Male, female, rich and poor.
too many people are having kids that should not be having kids.
Lol dude been divorced twice telling people how to have a successful relationship. Lol I think thatās funny as shit. Nah, I donāt take relationship advise from people I donāt know, and I damn sure donāt take relationship advise from ācelebritiesā. Iāve been in a relationship with one woman as long as he his been in a relationship with his 3rd wife. And Iāll tell you what, YOU define what your relationship looks like. You and your partner. We got to stop going to these outward idiots that some people idolize and stop drinking up everything they say. They have nothing to offer you. Find you a good woman or man, thatās willing to work on the relationship with you and will turn off all the exterior bullshit that comes from idiots like him and countless other people that make money off suckers in this society.
i donāt think women by default being able to have children is automatically bringing anything to the table. A lot of women are shitty moms/wives and donāt really contribute all that much as a partner. I think the whole what do you bring to the table discussion when itās directed at women is more about character stuff like actually being a good mom, a faithful and supportive wife, being hardworking etc. I think men are supposed to be the main breadwinner but with how expensive things are today itās an antiquated notion that a family can just live solely off the dadās income forever.
I agree with him 💯. I actually hate feminists for this very reason. They have this bright idea that a a woman has to split bills, go work in the cold world and all of that. Women are different from men. We men are made for hard life. Women need to stress less about it and focus on making the home better.
Damn the money they make. I would not allow her to work while I am alive. Not by force. If she wants to work, her choice but not to contribute to the bills. That's not going to happen while my body is still working. A simple life is better than all that money.
P. S: most people disagree with me but what is wrong if you the man works and woman stays at home? I would only expect her to not expect too much out of my capacity and be a good wife who would make ends meet with what I bring. She can have a servant to clean, good clothes, foods and fuel for her car utility bills are my headache but I won't pay for heavy make up and Gucci bags.
🤣 no that's dumb. If a guy workout at the gym takes care of his body. Makes a decent living. His girlfriend should have a low body count and no onlyfans account.
What you want me to accept a fat single mom? No there is surrogacy available if no woman can meet my standards. Men and women are equal, so men are allowed to have standards too.
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Steve should just stick to hosting Family Feud lol
He can do what he wants and I will maintain my own standards.
Steve Harvey is a simp just like his butt buddy Dr Phil
I beleive it but I ain't wifing no hoe, she isn't mother material.
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