Been with a mother of two on a paying dating site, she said she likes me, and will meet. Can’t befriend her on Facebook, I am 66, a doctor, she is 43?

Farid757

The site does not have great reviews and they say that chances of meeting anyone are close to nil. It is called YesDates. She has the same pictures that she sends me on the site, on Facebook. She hides her friends and posts but I can put like on some of her posts.. She said she has been divorced for two years and moved to Sweden from Ukraine. Although the address on the website is not the same as on Facebook. What game is she playing or is she controlled by the agency that enrolled her in the website? I sent her flowers and it was her who received them, I’m thinking she could be in a relationship or even still married but playing around on that website. Always refuses to give her contact information. I am suspecting that it is for me to continue to pay for the letters that I send her and there are no true emotions whatsoever. How should I behave? Because I am suspecting the ones who are writing the letters are employees of the administrators of the site. I repeatedly asked her about a picture that I saw her with two elderly people on Facebook and she never responded. Thanks. I have been divorced for 4 1/2 years and based in Kuwait, and as I mentioned, she is based in Sweden. Travel is not an issue. We are living in a small world. How will I know if she’s serious about ever meeting me. I have lived half my life in western countries graduated from Ireland and did my postgraduate degrees in Canada and the United States. I have a complete Western mentality. That’s why I sought a relationship with a Ukrainian or Slavic woman. I was thinking about marriage and many people told me to avoid A middle-age woman with small children, but I can manage and I have no issues with that, but I’m not sure how serious this lady is at all.

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8 mo

She sends photos that she places on her facebook page, if she is a scammer, would she do this? She had very few sexy pictures. When I commented on them she removed them. She said for me. Her instagram page confirms a single mom. Never asks for gifts. I can travel to her or pay her expenses to come, just to meet her, if she is serious. I have some feelings for her, but on a dating site she can meet other men, although everyone says stay away from a divorcee with young children.
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8 mo
She sends photos that she places on her facebook page, if she is a scammer, would she do this? She had very few sexy pictures. When I commented on them she removed them. She said for me. Her instagram page confirms a single mom. Never asks for gifts. I can travel to her or pay her expenses to come, just to meet her, if she is serious. I have some feelings for her, but on a dating site she can meet other men, although everyone says stay away from a divorcee with young children.
Been with a mother of two on a paying dating site, she said she likes me, and will meet. Can’t befriend her on Facebook, I am 66, a doctor, she is 43?
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