I’ve been with men 5’6-5’7 and haven’t had any complaints when it came to their appearance, the flaws were in their behaviour. maybe it has very little to do with your height and more to do with your character
Ok good, cause the way you worded your question... Oof. Many women prefer to date someone taller than them, it's in our nature to look for somebody taller, to feel safe. Society also aided with that, we're 'wired' to like/prefer these things. That said, you are 5'7. You can't tell me that there is no girl who is shorter than you. And those who Do still reject you over height, you don't want somebody that superficial anyway. It's all personal taste at the end of the day, you can't blame them, surely you have your own deal breakers. I call them superficial because I'm dating somebody shorter and he's a great guy.
And that brings us to the second part. Be a great guy. A great person. Caring, kind, a gentleman, be charming, funny, take good care of yourself, dress well, ... so many things you can do to be attractive. There are many guys your height and shorter who are very successful with women and they don't let height stop them (And no they're not rich either). And yes I say "letting their height stop them" because I believe that this is the case with you. "You can't get laid because of your height" In my opinion that's not true, and my reasons are here written above.
Likely it’s not about your height. If your only goal is to get laid it’s possible that these women you are trying can sense your lack of depth/genuine interest in them and therefore, not very interested and/or comfortable sleeping with you.
It’s all about your personality and a woman’s maturity. In my 20s I never would’ve dated a man shorter than me. I grew up and realized I’m attracted to a man’s confidence and ability to lead and make me feel protected. Height really has nothing to do with that. If a man is confident and demonstrates an ability to be strong and daring, id date him even if he was shorter than me. I’m 5’9” by the way
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Latinas won't care, they just want a good man, not some deadbeat... and a lot of Latinos are shorter. Machismo is kind of a thing in that culture, so being the video game, Cheeto muncher doesn't attract them... but if you're a solid guy that works and aren't some type of weenie fuckboy... trust me, Latinas SMOKE OUT White and Black American females. Badly.😏
You're not physically attractive. Your height is just one of the many setbacks. Are you in shape? Do you have money? Do you have your own place & car? Do you have good social skills with women? These things matter and gurantee a higher change of success
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Guy at work is your height and has no problem getting a woman, he is better than average looking so that helps but his real skill is how he talks to women. You basically just need to know how to talk, I suppose there’s classes on this , like a pick up artist I guess
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You’re 5’7? You should feel lucky I’m 5’5 and I’m a guy. I’ve also had many gf’s and have been laid before maybe it’s something else? Whoever told you height could be lying. If you really want to increase your height though there are shoes ands also things to put in your shoes to make you look taller…Also if you just want to be taller just to get laid well when you’re most likely in a bed you’re going to be the same height anyways 💡
but ladies write on dating apps, "don't bother contacting me if you aren't six feet", i saw many. i guess they think height and length the the thing i can't write, you know?
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Wear shoes with lifts. That should give you 4-5 inches.
Socially unaccapted
Yes, but it is accepted by KISS...
So, create a rock band and get laid 1000s of times like Gene Simmons!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CRMnCRoDguc
I’ve been with men 5’6-5’7 and haven’t had any complaints when it came to their appearance, the flaws were in their behaviour. maybe it has very little to do with your height and more to do with your character
Do you want me to give you a troll answer or an actual truth bomb that you most likely won't accept?
Truth Bomb, i'm Not joking i feel like i'll die as a virgin
Ok good, cause the way you worded your question... Oof. Many women prefer to date someone taller than them, it's in our nature to look for somebody taller, to feel safe. Society also aided with that, we're 'wired' to like/prefer these things.
That said, you are 5'7. You can't tell me that there is no girl who is shorter than you. And those who Do still reject you over height, you don't want somebody that superficial anyway. It's all personal taste at the end of the day, you can't blame them, surely you have your own deal breakers. I call them superficial because I'm dating somebody shorter and he's a great guy.
And that brings us to the second part. Be a great guy. A great person. Caring, kind, a gentleman, be charming, funny, take good care of yourself, dress well, ... so many things you can do to be attractive. There are many guys your height and shorter who are very successful with women and they don't let height stop them (And no they're not rich either). And yes I say "letting their height stop them" because I believe that this is the case with you. "You can't get laid because of your height" In my opinion that's not true, and my reasons are here written above.
I have those qualities aldready, but still mo success
From what I'm seeing you're still missing something. Confidence.
I had it back then, but i lost it after i realized
Nothing more sad than a person who doesn't believe in himself and beats himself up.
I mean, i can't change nothing now
Sure you can, just with that mindset.
So what should i do, i want to fuck lol
Women want dominant men and they find us submissive, there's the problem
I already told you what to do. And no, I've seen plenty dominant short men out there.
But theh still think that way
Went to the supermarket, saw a 5'3 guy with a girlfriend. She was shorter.
Likely it’s not about your height. If your only goal is to get laid it’s possible that these women you are trying can sense your lack of depth/genuine interest in them and therefore, not very interested and/or comfortable sleeping with you.
If a girl is 5'2 how exactly does your height bother her?
They still want a tall guy
It’s all about your personality and a woman’s maturity. In my 20s I never would’ve dated a man shorter than me. I grew up and realized I’m attracted to a man’s confidence and ability to lead and make me feel protected. Height really has nothing to do with that. If a man is confident and demonstrates an ability to be strong and daring, id date him even if he was shorter than me. I’m 5’9” by the way
Latinas won't care, they just want a good man, not some deadbeat... and a lot of Latinos are shorter. Machismo is kind of a thing in that culture, so being the video game, Cheeto muncher doesn't attract them... but if you're a solid guy that works and aren't some type of weenie fuckboy... trust me, Latinas SMOKE OUT White and Black American females. Badly.😏
You're not physically attractive. Your height is just one of the many setbacks. Are you in shape? Do you have money? Do you have your own place & car? Do you have good social skills with women? These things matter and gurantee a higher change of success
Guy at work is your height and has no problem getting a woman, he is better than average looking so that helps but his real skill is how he talks to women. You basically just need to know how to talk, I suppose there’s classes on this , like a pick up artist I guess
You’re 5’7? You should feel lucky I’m 5’5 and I’m a guy. I’ve also had many gf’s and have been laid before maybe it’s something else? Whoever told you height could be lying. If you really want to increase your height though there are shoes ands also things to put in your shoes to make you look taller…Also if you just want to be taller just to get laid well when you’re most likely in a bed you’re going to be the same height anyways 💡
So get a step stool if you can't climb on the bed.
That is impressive that you were able to survey all the women in the world to get that 90% data
And somehow he didn't survey you, did he?
@Unit1 you would be correct. 🤣
My friends with benefits was 5’5 and had no problem getting women, so I’m 100% sure it’s something else 🙃
your height doesn't bother me, the fact that you put the percent sign before the number does tho lmao
That's how we use it in my country, lol
Most girls if they are shorter than you will fuck you..
Nahhh
Stop whining about something you can't change and stop paying attention to people telling you height is the only thing women pay attention to
Find someone even smaller.
It’s what the Chadlet at my job used to do. And he got plenty of ass
Work out, have good hygiene, be stylish and sociable. I know people shorter than you who have no issue getting girls.
Bro, I am 5'8" and have had success. It has nothing to do with height. It is the way your carry yourself.
I can assure you, your height is not the problem. Most women don't give a flying fuck how tall you are. Your attitude is most likely the problem.
but ladies write on dating apps, "don't bother contacting me if you aren't six feet", i saw many. i guess they think height and length the the thing i can't write, you know?
@strateguy632 they're not worth knowing 🤷🏻♀️ why would you want to date a shallow person