1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Definitely bars and clubs. One night I was at the bar and a lady who was both drunk and high asked me if I wanted to head out with her and fuck. I had to decline honestly. Not only was that unattractive but I of course had fears of what she might later try to say if I did fuck her.
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+1 yOut of those options, only the bookstore is even remotely good, but its still slim chances at best (an arcade or comicon would be better).
The other options are trash. I'm not dating clubbers, alcohol drinkers, or gym rats, and airports are a terrible way to meet anyone because they could be from anywhere on earth, and its best to only pick from inside the country you live in for practical reasons.030 Reply- +1 y
@thespacegnome I added airports because I met a smoking hot flight attendant yesterday that I took home. Seemed pretty easy.
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Why would you bring a complete stranger into your house? Thats just retarded...
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@thespacegnome To have sex w/ her. But I didn't take her to "my home" we went to a hotel. I forgot that some virgins may take the word home literally.
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Having sex with strangers is a lot dumber than just bringing them to your house.
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@thespacegnome How would you know?
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Because I have common sense.
You know nothing about this woman, and she could get pregnant, or give you stds. - +1 y
@Vegasrunner - you're forgetting to mention that she would've asked you to PAY her. It's a WELL KNOWN fact that airline attendants prostitute themselves out in between flights. Some make more doing that than their jobs.
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@WiccanLady2023 Lmfao lifetime supply of stds and child support payments for the low entry fee of $500 a night 😂
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@thespacegnome - given Vegas's charming attitude elsewhere she probably asked far less
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@WiccanLady2023 That just means she's got more customers to get herpes from 😂
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@thespacegnome - given the way @Vegasrunner talks about sleeping around I think herpes is the least of his concerns. Probably has AIDS/HIV and as he comes across as inconsiderate passing it around.
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@WiccanLady2023 Probably
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@thespacegnome Lol, I guess all sense isn't common. I know the two things I need to know. She's beautifful and she wants me for the night. They have these things called condoms that mitigate that risk. Do you not drive cars, take flights, or play sports?
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@WiccanLady2023 Yea, that didn't happen at all. This is a case of you discussing a subject you know little about.
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@WiccanLady2023 Lol, excellent example of female delusion. You heard info that makes you feel bad so you've created a false narrative to help you cope.
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@Vegasrunner
"They have these things called condoms that mitigate that risk."
Lol those are a false sense of security. Condoms only covers the penis, and its not foolproof even for that spot. Viruses can just spread across the condom's surface and go underneith it (I really don't understand why people don't think about just how small viruses are), and the rest of your body is completely exposed. Herpes and HPV can enter via blood, unbroken skin contact, and mucus membrane contact, and HIV can enter via any mucus membrane and via blood. So something like kissing can spread all of those, and rubbing or cuddling can spread herpes and HPV. Do you wear a condom on your entire body during sex? Probably not 😂
"Do you not drive cars"
Cars are much safer than sex with strangers even if you use them daily, but I'm a city person and homebody these days, so I'm not in them much.
"take flights"
Fuck no, those are death traps.
", or play sports?"
Fuck no, too dangerous, too boring, too gross.
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@thespacegnome Ahh now I understand your confusion. You're afraid of everything. That makes more sense, however I certainly am not someone that believes in living their life in fear. More people die in cars than from sex so that's false as well. It also makes sense why you haven't had much success w/ women no offense byr try probably aren't the best person to give input on this subject.
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I do not "live my life in fear" 😂 I'm just not an idiot.
Trying to romanticize being stupid as "bravery" or "sanity" is moronic, as is trying to say being safe or picky and avoiding sluts, whores or other unwanted women, somehow worsens my chances with a genuine match. (you actually have to avoid those sleazy types of women to have any chance with the good ones).
I actually don't have any issues attracting women, I'm just not interested in most of them because shared hobbies, interests and skills matter to me, as does looks, personality, etc. And I generally am not soending any time worrying about dangers because I don't enjoy things that create thpse dangers. So while you might see it as "always being afraid of everything" I see it as just being preoccupied with better experiences.
As for the statistics, people die in cars more than airplanes, but thats because way more people use cars, not because planes are safer. A large chunk of the population isn't even having sex, and most of the ones that are having sex, are doing so monogamously with spouse, and for those being stupid about sex to the point of catching STDs, most of them do not die from it. So of course car wreck data will be higher than std related death. What a pointless thing to even mention.. 🙄
Its still fucking disgusting to have STDs, and it unravels your DNA over time and leaves you more exposed to other infections. The real people living in constant fear are the idiots who live risky lives, meanwhile people like me live far more carefree lives because we aren't subjecting ourselves to stupid choices. - +1 y
@thespacegnome If you're not driving, flying playing sports or having sex all out of fear than it's more accurate to characterize you as a coward. It's unfortunate that u don't respect women, but if you think they're sluts, then you're entitled to your belief. I don't think u have any problems attracting women because you aren't able to attract any if you were you wouldn't be so surprised to learn about sex. Actually a large part of men aren't having sex as approximately 1/3 of all men under age of 30 reported to being virgins or incels w/ithin the last year. They aren't getting laid because they can't or in your case are simply scared. Not sure who has STD's but as you admitted you are not experienced enough about sex it stands to reason that you would be a bit naive.
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Coward is a word used in that context only by the mentally retarded.
Which fits I guess since none of your rant makes any sense.
I never said I was afraid to drive, I said I'm not in a vehicle often, there is no need to be, everything's in walking distance, and its still safer than fucking strangers 😂.
Flying is pointless because I don't enjoy traveling that far, why go 30 thousand feet in the air "just because"? and sports are just boring af.
I don't watch sports or even play sports themed video games, thats a lowbrow hobby for the mentally challenged. I'll stick to better video games, art, reading, science research, etc.
People who have sex then ditch the person are not respectful, you have to earn respect, I respect decent women who have common sense, not whores or sluts. I'll have sex when I find a woman worth marrying, and not before then, because I actually respect myself and don't need to ruin my health just to get off like some desperate loser. - +1 y
As for this:
"I don't think u have any problems attracting women because you aren't able to attract any if you were you wouldn't be so surprised to learn about sex."
That is not a coherent sentence, I "don't have problems attracting women but I also do"? and somehow "I'm surpised sex exists"? Thats your claim? Seriously? How many beers dude? Sober up and try again. 😂
Oh and then there is this "gem":
"Actually a large part of men aren't having sex as approximately 1/3 of all men under age of 30 reported to being virgins or incels w/ithin the last year. They aren't getting laid because they can't or in your case are simply scared."
That statistic is way off, also I'm not scared of sex.
Not wanting to fuck whores and sluts because they are objectively disloyal disgusting cesspools of disease, is not being "afraid of sex" 😂
Sex with a commited partner is still sex dude. And if less women were being sluts, more men would be willing to marry and hump them 🤷🏻
People who live like you generally have STDs, the rest of us are usually clean. Its why your lifestyle choice is stupid. - +1 y
@Vegasrunner you're an idiot 🙄 and the more you blither the stupider you sound. Honestly
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@thespacegnome Your confusion comes from a limited mindset. As you've said you don't get out much and if basic things like travel frighten you I can only imagine how fearful speaking to a woman you've never met must be for you. If you're spending your times playing video games that makes sense why you're sheltered which leads to your fear. Also it's a but odd that you're commenting on a question about where to have success w/ women but have never had any actual success yourself.
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@thespacegnome You not understanding English is a reflection of your own shortcomings. The stat is off because you feel like it's off? Great response. Believe that women are "diseased sluts is an Irrational fear that only contributes to your current failures. You aren't able to have sex w/ a "committed partner" or random girl so not sure why you would even weigh in on this subject. According to a virgin people who have sex have STD's, I seriously hope you get the help you need.
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@Honeysuckle12345 TY for sharing that. I appreciate you being a fan of my work.
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@Vegasrunner is your work entitled The ramblings of a moron?
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@Honeysuckle12345 If it was I would be sure to have you on the cover. It's interesting that you have no real pount yet somehow believe your emotional out of context ramblings effect me.
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@Honeysuckle12345 Seems like the entitled ramblings of a moron to me, and everyone else so far 😂
@Vegasrunner My confusion is the result of you not making any sense whatsoever. You have no point, no solid line of thought, no actual logic in any of your rants, its like talking to a poorly made AI that struggles to form sentences so it just spews out nonsense. - +1 y
@thespacegnome TY for sharing but as mentioned b4 you don't have any experience having sex w/ a woman so this isn't a subject matter that you're going to understand.
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Dude if you aren't going to make any sense then don't bother replying.
+1 yDepends if you want a whore / slut / free prostitute - bars & nightclubs. Nobody goes there looking for meaningful sex and why decent respectable women avoid such places like it's a plague infested hole in the ground... which it is
If you actually want a woman who'll contribute to your life beyond sex well there's plenty of places but you'd not have a clue about Vegas
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+1 yBar/nightclub
Sexual women are always easier they tend to be at those places. But if you want a serious girlfriend/wife then I wouldn't go there
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sexual women? this is a new term to me
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@Light_beam lol
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@spongebobssocks Lookung for a "serious" relationship is a female trait. Guys are interested in getting as many women as possible not settling for just one.
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Some yes but there are traditional men out there
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@spongebobssocks Men have wanted multiple women since the beginning of time so a "traditional" man is going to also want multiple women. The question will be can he get them.
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Lol agree to disagree. doesn't matter if he can if he doesn't want too
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@spongebobssocks Feel how you like unfortunately reality doesn't validate your feelings.
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😂 im saying there are traditional men who do not wanna sleep around:) but thanks for making me laugh
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@spongebobssocks Lol, yea and I have a bridge for sale. If they didn't "sleep around" they wouldn't be traditional.
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@Vegasrunner you're an idiot and the more you blither the stupider and more useless you sound. Honestly
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@Honeysuckle12345 right?😂
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@spongebobssocks obviously @Vegasrunner is a complete creep and utter loser. Feel sorry for his mum but the way he talks she was probably a prostitute with a new man every day.
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@Honeysuckle12345 Haha damn.. maybe👀😅😭
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@Honeysuckle12345 Not as useless as a woman who isn't fucking though.
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@Honeysuckle12345 I can certainly understand how finding out that men enjoy having sex w/ women could be triggering for you. In other news water is wet and Santa Clause is not real.
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@Vegasrunner you know the more you say the more you prove that you are useless and that you came from rather poorly background with a prostitute for a mother and probably some drugged up loser for father.
I mean the stupidity of your comments is just mind-boggling. I mean why would I find you having sex with some stupid worthless s*** triggering - +1 y
@Honeysuckle12345 That is an excellent question. The reason why you find it triggering is because average women struggle when they hear information that challenges what they want to believe. The original post ask a straightforward positive question designed to provide men w/ insight to help them become more successful w/ women. For some odd reason this simple question has emotionally triggered you causing you to disrespect women, proving that women are the ones responsible for disrespecting each other much more than men do. TY for sharing this.
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"Lookung for a "serious" relationship is a female trait. Guys are interested in getting as many women as possible not settling for just one."
No vegas, thats just the bottom of the barrel trash like you that wants that, the rest of us guys want a loving wife. - +1 y
@Vegasrunner do you know how stupid you sound? Honestly. And don't try psychology on me ya worthless diseased slut, and you are a disgusting person when you don't want condoms, etc., I studied psychology.
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16.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. College campuses and hangouts
10 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. We've all done it of course , but I think bars and places like that are not the best , I like the idea of Bookstore , but I've never gone into them , the gym is really good but it can't be a ' pick up " , needs to be longer. Airport? hmm yeah maybe..
If I was voting on my results Id say Bar/ night club , but don't forget bcoz of my age , this takes in pre internet , I don't like the idea that it simply has to involve drinking.
I've voted gym , because I'm voting for the now.
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+1 yIt all depends on 3, well actually 2 things, but 3. 1. How good looking are you 80% Importance ( form scale 1-10, if you are 7.5 or above, you be able to pick up girls on a street, no need to go to any of those places). 2. thickness of your wallet. The thicker your wallet is, the more girls you be able to pick up and 3 how well do you speak, I'm not talking about speed I'm talking about elegance, be able to sound important and authoritative.
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@NewYorkCity Lol, all good points but which one did you pick?
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None of them. You don't have to pick between Coca-Cola or Pepsi, instead get yourself a carrot juice 😉
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@NewYorkCity Who is your supplier?
8.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't have a huge dating history but I never picked up more than one girl at any single place. I met one at a party, one in a bar, one at my college dorm, anormther one in high school English class, one in the library and I met my wife at the beach
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+1 ynone. unless you join a book club full of women or join a club. Also there's meetup. com. a lot of people meet through friends through friends. there's also yoga or you can meet girls at your work. Those are technically the easiest.
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@chicosuave Those are all terrible places to meet women. Friends through friends is probably the worse. Yoga would fall under gym category, but the rest of the places you named are terrible for a myriad of reasons.
1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. bars and nightclubs but the quality of women there is questionable
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+1 yat the streets. Where those type of women belong to.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yAbortion clinic (cause you know they f***ing)😆
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI wonder how Airport is a option, unless you two are travelling to the same location
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@anonymous Airport is a great option. I actually posted this question because I just hooked up w/ flight attendant at the airport. Airports usually provide a lot of dead time which allows you to talk, you have some obvious ice breakers, where are you headed, what are your plans when your in town, are you from ___, etc.
Opinion Owner+1 yWow
Flight attendant? Really?
Man I always get in fight with them.. every flight attendant I meet are so cocky lol- +1 y
Opinion Owner+1 yOh cool
How did you guys start the convo?
Just curious
Cause when I am at the airport, I go to the best bar there and get drunk and sleep- +1 y
@Opinion Owner Lol, we both happened to be sitting in exit rows alone across from each other during the flight. We never talked during the flight however when we got off, and were headed to passenger pick up she mentioned that she should have laid across the rows like I did, I made a generic response then asked her about her job, we talked from the exit, while we were on the train to pick up and by the time we got off the train we exchanged IG's I asked what she was doing she said she had a 90 minute drive back, I said something about you're going to need a lot of caffeine we went for a coffee and after that it was a wrap, she didn't drive back that night.
Opinion Owner+1 yMan what a stud you must be !!
Please educate me on how to be such a stud and how do you do these things
I can't imagine being so skilled at these!!- +1 y
@Opinion owner Lol, TY for the compliment but I don't know about that. One thing I've learned from a platform like GAG is that so many guys struggle w/ women because they place them on this unattainable pedestal. Ironically having success w/ women is pretty simple as long as you follow some basic rules.
1. Never take relationship advice from women
2. Focus on being the best version of yourself
3. Keep an abundance mentality.
The flight attendant happened organically, I doubt she had any intention of sleeping w/ me however once we started talking she couldn't help herself. This is how most women are, they claim they want one thing but their actions say another. The most important thing to understand is that what a woman says to you is simply a reflection of how she is feeling AT THAT TIME gl.
Opinion Owner+1 yWow thanks that's insightful!
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@Opinon Owner. Yes. Abundance mentality is the belief that there are plenty of people out there for you. Women typically hold an abundance mentality, believing that they can always replace the man they have w/ a better one. Men typically have a scarcity mentality believing that they can't ever do better than the woman they currently have. Because of this women tend to treat men worse than men treat women. As a man when you display an abundance mentality you are more likely to engage confidently w/ more women, giving you a better chance of having success. In a nutshell it's the belief that there are plenty of people out there for you.
Opinion Owner+1 yWow that's a great mentality to have.. positive mindset I see
Thanks again mate!
+1 yDepends what kind of woman you are looking for. Sluts bar, book store educated women.
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@LadiesFavoriteToy Interesting, I avoid stereotyping or being derogatory to women for that matter. I've found women at both bars and bookstores but I'm a little more advanced than the average guy.
2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Bar or nightclub because alcohol impairs good judgement.
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+1 yThe bar/nightclub.
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+1 yI heard bus stop
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LMFAO
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+1 yChurch. College campus. Library.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yBars and Nightclubs at closing time.
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+1 yOnline ….
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@nikkilee12 Statistically that is the worst place to pick up women.
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+1 yBar everytime
10 Reply 2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't have the slightest clue
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+1 yOutside home.
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+1 yBars, nightclubs
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 ySeriously?
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he seems dead serious
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