Why does a person act wishy washy?

[Anonymous]

If you introduce me to your mother or friends as a girlfriend why the hell you saying we aren't together. This and that. One min I'm your baby the next you act like you don't know me? Does this have to with being bipolar?

[ProbablyClueless]

Bipolar might have something to do with it, but wish washy people are just out of touch with themselves

[Asker]

Ya I can dig it lol. I just don't like mind games or heart games

[ProbablyClueless]

I am just exhausted from it, honestly. It's not fun, it's not entertaining, it's not exciting. I'm 30 years old. I thought I would have a family by now, but dating women has been so unpleasant that I have truly lost interest in reproducing

[Asker]

Dude I am 36 lmao up until yesterday I guess I was in denial about having father issues 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️. .. see for whatever reason attributed father issues to being a stripper 🙆🏽‍♀️😂😂 so turns out you can have the dad probs where you don't want to fuck a bunch of dudes you just want to push all the fucking good men away 🤦🏽‍♀️ look I took therapy for my parents divorce. Bihh you could have told me the shit when I was like 20 lol saved me a lot of heart ache. I am glad I didn't get the father issues where I settle and had a bunch of random children tho. Lol 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[ProbablyClueless]

lmao I appreciate that honesty though. I guess you're only ready to hear something when you're ready to hear it. I was a good 27-ish years old before I realized that I had extreme trust issues. Fortunately, I was able to get that stuff worked out.

You might be 36, but at least you made the realizations that you did. There's a lot of people who never do! Pushing all the good men away is probably a better reaction (overall) than having kids with everything that moves

[Asker]

Well I am glad you got the trust issues figured out because that is a relationship killer too. As well as pushing em away 🤦🏽‍♀️ I have released the dad issues into the 🔥 pits of hell 😂 I am all better now serious I just need to see why I was acting a fucking nut job. When you know there's a problem and you don't where to locate it. 🤦🏽‍♀️ They should have a psychological diagnostic tool. Like for your car!! And just be like ohh I got a short here and then just badah bing your better and get a warranty and everything lol

[BarryLiverstone]

He isn’t treating you as his girlfriend. Why is that?

[Asker]

No I mean he does. Tells me he loves me gets jealous And protective calls me baby. Lol I don't know tells his mother I am but like he outta the blue today was like we are really good friends... Lol but before all that we was cuddling and he said he loved me. Like tf I don't know 😶. I don't know if he crazy or what it is

[BarryLiverstone]

I see. How old is his mother?

[Asker]

Older lol cause we are why?

[HateyouxD]

No lmao
Just that he's a jerk

[Asker]

I can see that tho. I don't know it's just annoying lol cuz I am too the point. And I don't beat around the bush. So I'm not used to the passive aggressive shit.

[HateyouxD]

He's not for you
He won't change at least not soon

[Asker]

Ya I figured. But I just gotta understand the process like where does it come from. bc I am not used to it. I don't act like that I don't know. It's baffling to me.

[HateyouxD]

It's because he's a player. Something I can't understand how they do it and never get hurt and stunned. Or anything just play with girls