Why are girls so wishy washy?

[That1tallguy]

It happens countless times. I go on a date the girl shows all kinds of interest even says things like when am I going to see you again or let's go out again. Then when I decide to hit them up again they act cold, distant and I end up either ghosted or flaked on.

[Atul5086]

Seems like you are doing all the right things during your date to create attraction, from what you have described. But, it seems like you are messing up after the date. How long do you wait for until you as her out again? What do you usually do after a date that has gone well?

[That1tallguy]

If the date goes well after I get home I text her I had fun maybe mention something that happened on the date then say goodnight. After that a couple days later I hit her up talk a little then ask her out again. I'll also add these chicks were from online dating not sure if that makes a difference.

[Haterbye123]

I’ve had a similar experience, almost exact, girl was touching my arms/chest showing a lot of interest on date then afterwards went cold and ghosted. I’m almost certain this means they have a man already or found someone else.

[That1tallguy]

Yea that's what I thought too or worse she's putting you on the back burner. Like hung out with me cus she had nothing else going on at the moment

[Haterbye123]

Yeah exactly, that’s disrespectful af. Also if their current situation doesn’t work out or they run out of options they might try to hit you back up.

[That1tallguy]

Lol yea I had chicks who flaked on me hmu months later. That's when I hit them what the umm... who is this

[BeansGirl555]

I feel like girls have the same opinion in regards to guys. It's a people problem really. You cannot understand what is going on in someone's head and what can mean one thing for one person means the exact opposite for another person.

[That1tallguy]

Yea guys flake to but not nearly as much as girls. I mean the guy wouldn't go through the trouble to ask you out and set up the date only to flake.