How to turn a friends with benefits into a serious thing?

[littlehopes]

I had sex with a girl after 15 minutes I met her, then I saw her again a few times, and the same thing happened! now she is barely texting me and asks me almost no questions to get to know me, We have the plan to go on a little trip soon me and her but I feel like things are not going to work out, she is very nice replying to me when she does but I feel like is me the one putting the efforts, she is a very good girl and maybe she is ashamed of what she did, I don't know but I like her!

[dynamicyandere]

She probably just wants to keep it a fling.


But, if you keep pressuring her to make it into something more, that may be what makes her feel uncomfortable.


Otherwise, she’d probably be the one trying to make it into something more.


The best thing to do is to communicate your intentions.


Let her know that you want to have an actual relationship with her.


If she’s open to trying that, allow her to decide.


If she’d rather keep things as is, then let it be.


Just make sure you both are on the same page.

[EricSummer]

Try to do other things with her, too. Meet at places where you cannot have sex right away but where you can talk, such as a restaurant. Go to concerts, do sports or whatever you like. This trip together is a good chance, too.

As to the intimacy, put in a good amount of kissing. Be sure to stay close after sex and to cuddle. As long as she does not block these things you should be fine.

Most women get attached when repeatedly having sex with the same guy unless they really make an effort to minimize romantic contact. Only about 20% can resist this in the long run.

Texting is not a requirement. As long as you can arrange the next meeting it is enough.

[sheikalana]

If you feel like is not going to work out why would you bother making things serious. Is not going to work.

[Paris13]

Lack of Maybe Interest or Communication. Talk to her. xxoo

[Paris13]

Thanks to Gag... Welcome to Gag and Best of Luck Here. xxoo

[Vegasrunner]

Big mistake. For starters you can't turn a hoe into a housewife. Under no circumstances should you be trying to turn this serious and you certainly should go on this trip unless you're looking to loss her all together.

[DarkWinterNights]

A lot of people think if a girl gives it up too easily it ruins the chances of a relationship. But the reality is it goes both ways.

[DextroShade]

She should be the one to ask for commitment, not you. If she doesn't want commitment then she is recreational use only.

[Anonymous]

The keyword here is friends, so you have some work to do.

[artgorgeous]

just tell her. That's it.

[Anonymous]

it doesn't sound like she wants a serious thing

[In_Trance]

So talk to her about how you feel