Is it creepy for men to date women half their age?

[Anonymous]

When the woman is 19 or 20 and the guy is 11 or 12 years her senior? Or is it not creepy, if the guy is immature?

[DaveJord]

So, at 36 and 18 is creepy AF!!! 50 and 25 I would not say is creepy... but its a big age gap. I men she will be 35 when he is 70... that's when it gets creepy. But at 25 and 50, they both still pretty healthy and can have a lot of fun together.

10 to 15 years is like my max personally. But at 47 the oldest woman I have ever dated was 53, and she look better than most 45 years olds... because these 45-year-old hotties love the attention from 36-year-old men. So, when you are 47 and not googly eye over her at 45... the 36 year is more than willing to bend over backwards for her... yeah, I would totally go with the 36-year-old myself. I get it, she doesn't know that I am fucking amazing!

My sister is married to 72-year-old, and she is 50... but she if very happy and I am happy for her.

[Anonymous]

Personally I don't feel like I could relate or date to a woman under 25 but I think some men don't care. It's definitely questionable gap but then I think if she's 18 whats the point of judging? I'm not condoning the age gap I just think the disdain is misplaced cause the law gave that man the power to date someone that much younger than him. Also I feel like girls around that age are chasing men in their 30s cause it makes them feel mature, so I also question that girls' upbringing when I see that dynamic as well.

[ta-ra]

I personally feel either gender after mid twenties shouldn't worry so much about age. Unless your trying to start a family. I feel like after 25-30 you are who you are so if you get on well with someone older or younger than why not

[Apple1996]

Yeah I think it's creepy if the age gap is bigger then 10-12 years especially if the younger person is a teen-early 20s. They are still developing and figuring out life

[DarkLegacy]

It is not creepy either way, but on the point of the guy being immature, if he has never had a girlfriend before then it makes more sense to go for younger. And this problem with men in the 30s dating younger is just a millennial woman who has hit the wall problem. It is really the case they are jealous and are kicking themselves for not bagging the guy who is going for the younger woman.

That is their fault for not bagging them sooner and will teach them to not be so shallow when they were younger.

[Asker]

Fair comment, but in my case and my bestie’s case, it’s more disgust that men our age would hit on someone almost young enough to be their daughter. I’ve had my turn of being exploited by much older men when I was young and immature. Why would I be jealous of someone who’s too young to know who they are and is considerably less mature than I am? I have friends who are younger and prettier than me and i get asked out by guys and girls in their teens and really hot ones at that. That’s why I closed all my social media accounts. Guys younger than me and women wouldn’t go away and I found it gross at my age.

[DarkLegacy]

Perhaps it is just the case that you millennial women are just too judgmental, I've always suspected that. Luckily it seems only a millennial woman problem

[DarkLegacy]

You need to grow up, at 36 im nowhere near old, im not that much older then you. And it is you that is protesting and trying to control mens bodies

[DarkLegacy]

The law in nearly every country on the globe stats that everyone is an adult by 18. And we far from make fools of ourselves and being in your 30s does not make us old. If that is so then you are an old woman. This is just retarded millennial thinking

[DarkLegacy]

I don't have a daughter and if she is 18 and over not a problem. Nice try, such a cheap shot and overused argument

[DarkLegacy]

Nothing you can do about either of these things, suck it up. Lol

[Asker]

You’re funny 😂😂😂

[ShadowYamihiro]

completely agree

[DarkLegacy]

@ShadowYamihiro Thank you

[NamerOfStars]

If a guy is dating someone half his age with an eleven year age gap, then he's dating an eleven-year-old- that's not just "creepy", it's illegal.

But if they're both adults, then no. It's a pity you've aged out of the prime market, but that doesn't make your replacements- or the men who chase them- bad.

[DarkLegacy]

Lol, nice one,

[Asker]

How would you feel if she were your daughter? Because she could be.

[DextroShade]

If he is treating her right then I am fine with it, especially if he has money and can provide.

[DarkLegacy]

@DextroShade same here

[DextroShade]

Not at all, the man should always be older. The only people who really have a problem with this and attempt to shame it as "creepy" or "immature" are old bitter spinsters who failed to lock-down one of the men their age and are upset that he chose the younger woman instead. It's pathetic.

[Asker]

Imagine if she was your daughter, because she could be.

[DextroShade]

If my daughter was 20 and was dating an older, wealthier man I wouldn't have a problem with it as long as he was treating her right. It would be far preferable to her having a bunch of flings with young dudes.

[ShadowYamihiro]

Nothing creepy about it, they are both adults, if a girl ain't interested than that's that, if she is then she is making her choice and age stops being important as she want to flirt or even date that person, he is a male and she a female, personalities and feeling go far beyond age

[Berethor]

You tell me, but young women sure tend to be better than old women, it's just a fact. :)

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Christmas_Cake

[Asker]

They’re prettier for sure. Not better, just different.

[DarkLegacy]

Well yes and they are better @asker because they are more fertile and less likely to have complications from childbirth and such. And @asker why do women think it is ok to go for guys based off of looks when they are below 30.

[Asker]

@DarkLegacy not better in terms of having a partner who can really be your equal, in terms of emotional maturity though.

[DarkLegacy]

Pity millennial women who have hit the wall did not realize that when they were younger, we would not have these problems. You hear the modern female cliche of ' i will not have anyone telling me who i should and should not see'. Remember it and learn because the same applies. How much of your energy are you gonna put into trying to stop men in their 30s going for younger women.

And another thing why in particular do you have a problem with men in their 30s going for these younger women, that sort of backs up my original claim.

[Asker]

@DarkLegacy I don’t like the fact that they hurt them, exploit them, use them for sex and then dump them. I actually don’t do anything, if I have younger friends, I invite them to group events and warn them that my friends are a bit sleazy.

[Asker]

They agree. Why when they have their choice of the best men, would they throw their lives away on some old guy?

[Berethor]

@Asker old men can have children, old women become totally useless, infertility.

https://www.yourfertility.org.au/everyone/age

[Asker]

Would you consider your mother or your grandmother useless, then?

[Berethor]

I would not marry someone who is the age of my mother or grandmother so kinda.

[Asker]

I’m guessing you haven’t said that to them. Women of all ages do the most important and undervalued job there is. They bring up the next generation.

[Asker]

I think that is worthy of respect.

[DarkLegacy]

It is not a job and they bring them up all wrong, they brainwash them by filling their heads full of feminist, woke crap. A bit like what your Mother did with you.

[Asker]

@DarkLegacy of course it’s a job. If you didn’t have a mother, you wouldn’t be here.

[Asker]

They don’t always get it right, but they do their best.

[Berethor]

You have children or you old childless feminist? many feminists are childless.

[Asker]

I’m neither a feminist nor someone with kids.

[Asker]

I’m your age. A few months younger actually 😀. by the way, men’s sperm starts to age after the thirties, so both men and women age and become less fertile.

[Berethor]

Soon you get too old to have kids you know that? so harry up, time running out.

[Asker]

I don’t want kids.

[Berethor]

Then you useless as a woman, you be lonely and childless feminist, suck for you.

[Asker]

Whatever. 😂

[DarkLegacy]

@Asker it is not a job

[DarkLegacy]

@Asker mens sperm does not age, stop talking feminist bullshit

[Asker]

@DarkLegacy of course it does.

[Asker]

Men and women are most fertile in their twenties

[Asker]

The chances of having a disabled child increase when a man and woman hit their mid thirties.

[DarkLegacy]

@Asker only for women

[OfMiceandMen]

I know I would not date someone half my age as I am unsure as to what we would talk about. For me, conversation is good part of the relationship, and we would be at different stages in our lives.

[Asker]

That’s my point.

[OfMiceandMen]

I think some guys think the sex part would be great with a younger woman again, but, what do you do when you are not between the sheets? Just seems kind of pointless to me.

[Asker]

I completely agree. That’s why I don’t date younger guys.

[Astarlessnightsky]

Why is it only the guy thats creepy? The women are dating someone much older, why don't you ask if they are creepy?

[Asker]

Because they’re too young and innocent to know any better.

[Astarlessnightsky]

They are adults.

[Asker]

Not emotionally. Not those that are young for their age.

[Astarlessnightsky]

How old do you have to be to date someone 10 years older than you?

And are the 20year old women old enough to date someone else at the same age?

And what about women dating 20 year old men while they are 30+ year old?

[Asker]

That’s equally creepy.

[DarkLegacy]

because she is sexist and is just bitter at these men rejecting her for prettier women, but way what the heck what is good for the goose is also good for the gander. She probably did when she was younger and maybe still does. She is playing the men are the predator card for obvious reasons.

What she should know is that it is not going to make any difference as to whether we date younger or not. She thinks it is ok to reject men for certain reasons when she is younger and maintains her right to do so but then when it is the other way round, she is slating men and not respecting their rights, typical hypocritical millennial women.

Two words to these women: GROW UP!!!

[Asker]

@DarkLegacy I don’t have to be jealous when I’m getting asked out by guys and girls in their late teens and early twenties. What do I have? A partner my own age who is my equal and I’m his. I’m not a young woman true and I’m also not being used for sex by dirty old men-or dirty old women old enough to know better, in my view.

[Asker]

Nor do I exploit these people almost young enough to be my children.

[Asker]

Most of us look our age, but only some of us act our age. I’m one who does both.

[DarkLegacy]

You don't act your age but you probably look it lol

[DarkLegacy]

Here is another statement for you used by millennial women 'my body, my choice'

[Asker]

@DarkLegacy lol you’re so angry and bitter over a simple debate. You’re funny 😂

[DarkLegacy]

And another 'we are free to do whatever we like with our bodies'.

[Asker]

@DarkLegacy yeah of course you look young for your age 😜😂😂😂

[Drumlin2001]

Isn't Madona dating someone 30 years her junior. Is that creepy?

[DarkLegacy]

Equality card well played.

[Asker]

Yes. My question is about men, though.

[Asker]

It happens more often

[Drumlin2001]

I know what your question was. I was just curious whether it was age inappropriate relationships you had an issue with or just bashing men

[Asker]

Fair question. For me, it’s the age inappropriate relationships. I asked why men do it, as it’s always been more men than women who do it (but not only men, of course).

[Nikki1989]

Yes, if the woman is that young, it is very creepy. Give it another 10 years and it is not so bad.

[Huntingnfishin]

As long as they're legal I don't really cqre that much. My first thought is that the girl probably has daddy issues or that the guy has a lot of money

[Ironic_Method]

I'm 37, my wife is 29 and we've dated girls that are between 18-46. I can see how it'd be creepy, but it's been great for us and everyone involved so far.

[Al_Musafir]

Age gaps don't mean anything when you are grown up enough.

[balyai]

For me it's creepy. Those who do it is mostly for sex.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

10 or a little bit over 10 years apart is isn't that big of a deal.

Over 15 years apart is when it can get weird.

[jimmy2]

Well I am 62
My girlfriend 38
She be forever young to me

[inhua]

creepy is just a matter of perspective

[DevikaButts95]

It definitely can be, but not always.

[FunkyMonkee]

No. Age is just a number.

[zagor]

Only if the guy is under 30.

[Awantika03]

Nope

[DarkLegacy]

It is jusy bitter and jealous women who ahve gone past 30 who have a problem

[Asker]

@DarkLegacy that’s just an excuse for dirty old guys to hit on people barely more than kids.