What do guys find attractive in women?

[lavenders]

[OfMiceandMen]

That's a hard one to answer. I don't have a specific type, and I don't really know until I see/meet her.

She has to be pretty intelligent so we can carry a conversation. She has to have a good sense of humor and get my sense of humor. I'd prefer her not be insecure, but if she is a little, no big deal. I like confident women someone who knows what they want out of life and the type of person they want to spend it with. I could care less if she's rich, I grew up appreciating the little things in life, hope she would be the same.

Obviously, she has to be cute and have a nice smile, but I don't have any specifics about her body. I've seen totally flat chested women that I thought were absolutely gorgeous and both slim and larger girls that I thought wow!

A faithful woman is always attractive.

So it really isn't as cut and dry for me. I just know when I see her and more so when I finally talk to her as to whether she's attractive to me.

[HighValue]

Physically? I like women with long naturally colored hair with no tattoos and no piercings other than her ears, and a slim or athletic build. A lot of a woman's appearance that can ruin her looks is based on her life choices.

People can't choose how their face looks, but they can choose if they purposely do things to themselves that damage their looks.

[Jkgordon]

It depends on their race black guys just like bigg butts it don’t matter if you are smart or decent
I’m black American before someone gets upset
White guys like educated attractive slim women
Asian guys are like the white guys standards
Indians they don’t have a choice
Spanish hips and beauty with strong sex appeal with the home maker attitude

[JosyJosy]

The same things we like in guys, if we exclude the physical part.

[Anonymous]

LOOKS:
Fit frame with good tone.
Thin waist.
Curvy hips.
Bubble butt--nicely shaped but not hippo-like. (Some guys DO go for the livestock-ass look, but I'm personally not a fan).
BIG, firm, perfectly-shaped boobs.
Bright eyes.
Nice smile with great teeth.
Long, healthy hair.

PERSONALITY:
Sunny-disposition--bright positive energy.
Kind and loving.
A giver and nurturer.
Fun and likes to laugh.
GREAT in bed.

OTHER (less important) QUALITIES:
Smart
Talented
Rich

I may have missed some, but that's a pretty good list of the most important elements.

[lavenders]

That’s a long list. Would you feel offended if a girl shared a similar list with you?

[Opinion Owner]

Well, you asked what guys find attractive in women. There are several factors we find attractive. I tried to list out the biggest ones. Not sure why it would be offensive--fire away!

[lavenders]

I am asking generally. If a girl shared her personal opinion and not what most girls find “attractive” and it was a huge list. How would it make you feel?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't think it would make me feel any way to be honest. My guess is I'd probably understand well over 80-90% of the items on the list. I might be surprised by a couple. That would be interesting. But it's just data. It's helpful to know what reality is, no?

Also, a girl can most reliably share her personal opinion. It probably bears some resemblance to what most girls find attractive. The only way to really understand the general trend is to gather a number of individual preferences and see where there are the most commonalities.

[Finchie40]

Her beauty and personality , if she has a good heart and good morals and understands what it means to be in a relationship, then that makes her very attractive

[Miristheiss]

Their femininity, soft peaceful, calming nature, her nurturing ways, her eyes, smile, face, her cute figure, her laugh, having similar values, being affectionate, her feelings for me.

[BoopBoopBeep]

No drama, no entitlement, actually bringing something to the table, takes care of herself, no drama. Notice I said that one twice.

[serious]

Highly subjective.

Yes it can be looks and personality both.

[Billlewis]

Confidence, assertiveness and a fairly demanding personality.

[Counterclocking]

Her looks (Nice hair, face, and body). Also, women that wear pantyhose especially with dresses and skirts will be the most attractive to me.

[slatyb]

Me? Intelligence, kindness, happiness, a lack of magical beliefs.

[KrakenAttackin]

Feminine, friendly, faithful, reserved, kind, and pure (very small body count)

Unfortunately, most women these days are loud, obnoxious, masculine, promiscuous, and argumentative.

[Sebastian141]

Women that are beautiful, that flirt openly and give you compliments
and that make you feel happy to be around with because they have such a positive inviting energy.

[Pudsmucker]

Compatibility Personality, how are they in their financial situation. They're friends and associates.

[CountryTJstar]

Guys are a lot more visual than women are so the obvious looks and body are always at the forefront, but quirks are huge too.

personally I love a woman who is unapologetically themself.

[Grond21]

Are you asking about men in general or us personally?

[RyanK9b]

Natural beauty.
Feminine appearance.
Slim/fit body

[DextroShade]

Her beauty, her feminity, her chastity, and her cooperation.

[Iron_Man]

Intelligent, personality, beauty, motivation, good energy loyalty, respect

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Speaking for myself. Someone smart, nice and has a friendly welcoming personality.

[BLP11520]

Personality humor attitude and decent looks

[Thanatos777]

I think the fap has warped my vision on whats whay... So better I don't chime in lol

[Avicenna]

Great personality

[DryGermanGuy]

The right combination of boobs and brains! 🤔

[andy530]

A sexually curious mind

[lavenders]

Now I am curious to why you find that attractive? If you don’t mind explaining it more?

[convo_king89]

The boobs the first thing I look at

[msc545]

Mental health and a sense of humor.

[Cheerfull009]

Her beauty and body

[clampfan101]

Depends on the guy.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Femininity.

[OddBeMe]

Sense of humor

[Pterodon]

Intelligence

[Twalli]

Ot varies

[shades777]

both

[MaxUsefull]

Hot body

[imfreeze95]

Honesty and respect.

[dolemite58]

sincerity

[Anonymous]

Financial education

[OneEyeDMonsteer]

Depends on the guy