Do I have to talk to girls to get a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Im too shy too talk to girls and Im too shy to ask girls out

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+1 y

i learned i got to talk to girls to get a girlfriend

[RomanticDan]

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[serious]

I think so yes. Unless you are not in the environment where a girl can notice and like you then it is very tough to get a girlfriend.

I mean you are not going to get a girlfriend by just sitting in the room of your house. Just saying as an example.

[JosyJosy]

No, you can also just be likeable and if a girl feels comfortable around you and likes you, she might come up and talk to you instead. But if you go talk to girls you'll increase your chances.

[chrissykerdock]

just think your always going to have to talk to a girl even if she goes out with you do you think the talking stops then...5 years later your still going to have to talk to her

[RoseySarah]

Yes unless you want guys?

Your shy accept it and just try for baby steps those will add up and in time you can talk more easy!

Don't force yourself to hard then you just mess up! You can do it!

[Chthou95]

You have to do more than that. Are you in shape? Do you have a job and are taking care of your financial responsibilities? Do you have your own place? Do you have the confidence you need to try and talk to women? Are your social skills any good? You need to make you take care of these things first because they do matter and you will increase the chances of succeeding with women

[ProbablyClueless]

Being able to talk with girls certainly helps with getting a girlfriend. You might be able to make something work with AI nowadays, but a flesh and blood woman will most likely need you to be able to talk with her.

[HelpfulWoman]

well duh? unless you're gonna be a creep and buy a "mail order bride" then you have to at least say hi...

[exitseven]

Yes, sorry to be the bearer of bad news but it is a pre requisite.

[BoopBoopBeep]

No you can get one at the store. FFS are you slow?

[Skull_Anon]

I think the answer to this goes without "saying"..💀

[Starrrboy]

Well , if they don't ask you out either.. yeah , you're gonna have to... also when you get a girlfriend you're probably expected to take the lead most of the time lol

[LiamJHayden]

No, but you will get far more dates if you ask rather than waiting for them to ask you.

[Asker]

i never had a girl ask me out, or come up and talk to me.

Should i keep waiting for girls to ask me out

[WhiteBoyChill]

The likelihood of a girl ever talking to you is slim to none unless you establish yourself from the pack

[Anonymous]

If you are really good looking then girls will come to you and you just need to sustain the convo instead of going to them

[WhiteBoyChill]

Its kinda weird tho, cuz I’ll get compliments from women I talk to online, but never the ones I meet in person

[Opinion Owner]

@WhiteBoyChill Do the online ones see you?

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah, like over video calls and stuff.

[spartan55]

Oh my. This can't be real.

[RedInnocent68]

That’s a joke, right? Duh…

[OddBeMe]

Kinda required, unfort

[WhiteBoyChill]

Ultimately yes. Zero effort, zero reward.

[MaxUsefull]

You will have to overcome this shyness

[Jmmmfi4]

ONLINE IS EASIER THAN IN PERSON