Should I be able to get girls?

[Anonymous]

Girls online have roasted me for not being able to get girls. It’s hard the reality is.

Like why do girls make it so hard or show little interest in me. I present myself well and have no undesirable characteristics as such. I’ve had a hard look at myself. Like I’m tall and slim, clean.

Girls should be able to get girls when they want

I disagree

[PrettyPriya]

I think your option for the poll should read “guys should be able to get girls when they want”. Am I right? I think it is a simple typo but correct me if I am wrong. If that is what you think, that is your problem right there.

That comes off as entitled that girls should just get with you because you want them to. If that sort of attitude shows in real life (or online) I can guarantee that is the issue.

That would certainly rub me the wrong way. You are not entitled to anything in life just because you want it. You have to work at it.

Dating and relationships are no different. They take work. You say you have no undesirable characteristics. So, entitled and cocky. Yet, those are desirable?

Let me let you in on a secret. We all have some character flaws. No one is perfect yet you think you are. I think we discovered the problem.

[Asker]

You fabricated an approach that comes from females seem sexist towards men. Well done

[PrettyPriya]

Just pointing out the obvious. You just don’t like what you here do you get triggered.

[Agape93]

Somebody's triggered lol verdammt

[PrettyPriya]

@Agape93 isn’t this the incel mindset? “We should be able to have girls just because”

[Asker]

I mine this whole question was made on the fact that women claim I’m not able to get girls like it determines my value?

[Asker]

I feel like the truth is that many women when triggered just turn to manipulate bitches as their nature is inclined such

[Asker]

I SHOULD be able to find a girl, there’s so many women in the world.

[Asker]

I’m a good man. I deserve to find a good woman. You woman are so sensitive and blind to the truth.

[Asker]

Like a good girl might be like why can’t I find a good guy.

[WonderBell99]

This is exactly the “nice guy” behavior that a lot of women find repelling. Just because you pretend to be nice in order to sleep with women, does not automatically make you nice. Being nice with an ulterior motive only makes you a piece of shit.

[WonderBell99]

and well, well, well, what is up with the name calling? you do realize that it goes against GaG’s guidelines right?

[Agape93]

Yeap it very much is how they think

Incels don't care about rules. They only care about getting their dicks wet and hating us when they can't

[WonderBell99]

@Agape93 Fr, I can smell the entitlement and douchebaggery through the screen. No wonder he’s still single lmao.

[Skkdjvj]

The guy never insinuated he wants to sleep with girls. Getting girls doesn’t mean fucking them, but having girls attracted to you and wanting to know you. Shame on you idiot women, I expected better from some shit moderators on a site. You call yourself women when all you do is put words in guys mouths
Well I hope you idiots don’t find NICE guys I hope you find men that treat you like the dirt you are.

[Skkdjvj]

I relate to the asker I’m just a normal dude who has struggled to meet someone nice. We get attacked for that? Just shut up and go on about your day

[WonderBell99]

@Skkdjvj I have absolutely no interested in getting into a relationship at the moment, but I am neither entitled nor a douchebag. I’ll manage to find a nice enough guy to marry, don’t you worry.

[Skkdjvj]

@WonderBell99 oh so you’re entitled to find a nice guy haha. HYPOCRITE!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Skkdjvj]

You women are better with your mouths shut

[WonderBell99]

@Skkdjvj I don’t think I “deserve” anyone for being a decent human being, so no, I’m not entitled. If any decent man likes me for who I am, and accepts me as I am, I’d be content with him.

[WonderBell99]

Your bitterness shows though. A+ for effort, but try harder next time 😉

[Skkdjvj]

@WonderBell99 well I feel like I one day deserve to find a nice woman because I’m always working on myself to become better every day. There’s nothing you can do to change that. I deserve to find someone nice of course haha. You girls have some kind of mental issue !
Bye

[Skkdjvj]

You get bitter we feel like we deserve to find someone nice someday. Don’t be mad that woman isn’t you 😘

[MaxRobespierre]

@Asker, look, I'll try to explain it simply for you. When I was a kid, my grandma was born before the boomers. The depression era, whatever they called them. She told me to be a gentleman and open doors for women, and be nice, whatever. But none of the girls still wanted me.

Kids can tell when something is bullshit, like Santa Claus. And they learn to do what works. I saw how girls were going for the guys that treated them a certain way. I started treating the girls a certain way that the other guys were treating them, and; I started getting the girls back in school.

It's that simple. You look at how the guys treat the women to get women, and you do what the guys are doing and treat the women like how those guys treat the women. It's not rocket science.

[dustybiker]

The problem might be something you don’t see. You present yourself like this.. but how do you interact/react to woman you are interested in?

In other men who say this same sort of thing on here, they tend to be very reactive. Which is common in people who are hurt. They always have insecurities and act defensively.

If you have either (we don’t know) try to acknowledge that and counter them. Stop yourself from reacting knee-jerk. Try to stay positive.

[KittyBox]

Perhaps they roast you because you act pathetic towards them? Where women want a man, they just see you as a boy, so my advice would be to grow up, pick up your weight, less complaining and more action, women love a confident man, and most of the time they like a man that's strong, and is motivated to try and become successful.

The roasting never stops though, my wife is constantly on my back. lol

[AviatorTom]

First off, you don't "get" girls. You meet girls, strike up a conversation, find things in common, and go out on dates. Sometimes that leads to something more.

If your goal is to "get" girls, you're going to fail every time, unless you pay for an escort.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

So you're baseline acceptable.

And this is supposed to attract girls?

What do you have to offer? What is attractive about you? What is good about you? How would you make a girl's life better than if she didn't have you in it?

Just because you exist doesn't mean you "deserve" a girl.

[Missgingles]

Dont tell women you can't get girls. What do you think is stopping you?

[Guy13]

ReeeeeeeeeeeeeeeLAX some

[Guy13]

You seem to be inside your own head. I assume that you are bright. Girls do not like "inside their head" talking guys... Not until they are 24-30 years old...

[Iron_Man]

Yes you can get girls go to the gym