Would you? Or would you pass?

[Anonymous]

So you meet an amazing woman in her 30s, she is everything you have been looking for. Pretty, down to earth, only been with 1 person her whole life and she is widowed. But she has 3-4 kids. Would you still want a relationship with her? Or is she doomed to be alone forever?

[boggboss]

wouldn't say she is doomed to be forever alone but 3-4 kids would be too much for me personally as I have not even had any kids of my own yet

[Asker]

What if 2 were almost adults

[boggboss]

Thats makes it even harder no with younger kids building a bond for them to see u as a parent figure is not easy but is possible with older kids u are not only having to stay in the women's graces but also her kids which they could resent a new guy in the picture

[Asker]

Makes sense

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer

[boggboss]

Surly looking for a partner in a man that's already a parent would be the better option when it comes to single parent dating

[boggboss]

👍🏽 loke said I'm sure u ain't doomed to be alone just gotta work a little harder I do hope things work out

[Asker]

It's my friend actually but thanks

[boggboss]

Sweet

[Anonymous]

If she pays me money and takes care of the bills then sure.

[Asker]

Why should she pay you money?

[Opinion Owner]

She don't want to be alone, right? So she got to pay me. I am not taking care of another man's kids. She got to hold it down.

[Asker]

I'll pray for you.
Get over yourself

[Finchie40]

It would depend on what she expects from me , if she expects me to financially take care of her kids’ then No , but if she provides for her own kids’ then I have no problem being with her and helping her out if she treats me like Gold. I have kids’ but they are older now , and I don’t expect another girl to financially support my kids’ and would never ask her for a dime. So I expect the same in return if she has kids’ as well. So I would date her and be with her if that’s the situation, otherwise No

[serious]

I will of course pass.

[gorydetails]

Does she take it in the butt?

[Asker]

I never asked her, but your comment wasn't necessary. I'm trying to help my friend. No need to make jokes.

[gorydetails]

I don't need your permission to reply how I want.

[Asker]

K 👍