Which of these is most important in attracting women: looks, height, money?

Question

If you are rich enough, height and appearance cease to matter.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Looks first and foremost. That's the same for both genders anyone who tells you different in lying to you.

After that it varies. Because some women have DEEP height hangups (even good women believe it or not). My sister is one that's how I know. She's 5'10" and she's embarrassed to even dance with a guy shorter than her. I know it's sucks if I wasn't tall (6'5"... everyone in my family is kind of tall) it would probably make me very mad. So I feel for my shorter brethren.

And some women were born poor or grew up poor and do not want to live poor. So to some women a guy who she feel can always take care of her and her offspring is very important.

So I'd say 1. Looks, physical attractiveness. And 2. Is a tie between height and money depending on the woman.

TommyWiseau69 · Accepted Answer

Height. It's something women have wanted since our species began. Women have always been attracted to bigger men. It doesn't matter if you're not good looking if you are tall. It does matter if you are good looking and not tall. Tall height in men gives good feelings to women. It indicated good genes and women are turned on by tall guys that are not good looking.

They got good bodies and personality which is far better than being good looking will offer. Coming from a short guy that's probably better looking than a lot of tall guys, women are going for them not me. The ugliest tall guys I've seen with women. Good looking guys can be huge pricks. Big size in dick, height and weight is all thats needed.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

Out of these 3, good looks matter the most, in my opinion.

Good looks can mean as much as just having charisma or just being sexy, which doesn’t necessarily mean a man must be very handsome or something.

Grandma used to tell me all the time, that the man I’ll decide to marry can be just a bit prettier than a monkey, other than that what matters is that he treats you well and loves you. She probably learned it from her experience because my grandpa was a very handsome man.

I don’t fully agree the monkey theory, but as experience showed me, I think there was wisdom in my grandma’s words.

We could argue that maybe my ex wasn’t as attractive for other women, as he was for me. All people tend to be attracted to different things.

Rei13 · Accepted Answer

It’d be good looks based on the options you gave however I place more importance on confidence and personality. You can be super hot, what I consider tall, and make Bank but if your personality sucks and you lack confidence it doesn’t really matter tbh

coachTanthony · Answer

Make a girl laugh and you're in (in most cases)

EricSummer · Answer

The most important are conversation skills.

If all the three points you mentioned are average and you can talk and listen well, then you will not stay lonely. Average is 5'10", $60K/year, and somewhat prettier than a chimpanzee.

Sonorous · Answer

Looks.

Both height & money can contribute to that as well. For instance, if a guy is average looking in the face but he's 6'1 with nice masculine proportions, girls will see that as a boost in looks. So he'll be above average looking to them. And a similar thing happens when a guy has money, though in a different way.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Looks and then personality. Im not too worried about height as long as its 5’7-6’3. And money ain't a factor unless we’re engaged/living together and he needs to pay his share

Anonymous · Answer

I know it's going to get misinterpreted by bitter guys here but if I really had to pick it would be money. If there was the option I would pick a man who is a kind person. I don't care at all about height and looks are minor matter (I'm not great looking myself) So I would rather pick the man who can give better financial security for the both of us and our potential child

Apple1996 · Answer

I guess good looks? But really personality is most important. And why is money in all caps? 😂

annabananna · Answer

Out of all of those shallow option I’d say money. You can always put a bag over the face with a picture of brad Pitt taped to the bag.

Kaamraj · Answer

There are a collection of good sayings. 1. There are no ugly rich men. 2. There are no weird rich men. 3 There are no short rich men.

exitseven · Answer

Money. It shows ambition and the ability to provide a safe environment. You can get by on good looks for only so long.

inhua · Answer

looks will always be most important and prioritized the first before all others

goaded · Answer

With money, they're not feeling attraction, they're feeling greed. If that doesn't matter to you...

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

For myself I think good looks , let me lose 60lbs or better and I will be more happy.

BigDog1989 · Answer

Money If you expect to have a family, you HAVE to have money

jimmy2 · Answer

Good looks, good personality,, and cook nickey
You always want more money but I found people start out at Social Security @ $2,000 a month then move to better jobs as life goes on down the road.
Best thing to remember be content with where you are because life will bring changes positive or not

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Among those three I would say looks, as it is initially what draws you to the person. I guess a girl gets what she pays for if any of those are in their top three.

Anonymous · Answer

id say looks, but u r not going to get considered seriously for a relationship just off that if u r an asshole

Anonymous · Answer

Good behavior, love , respectful, understanding, empathetic, well-educated and an average look will do. These things are more than enough at least for me. And about money if we are educated enough we will earn together and may be multiply together 😉

Anonymous · Answer

I knew a broke and unemployed guy that had women chasing him. Do you think they would have still done so if he wasn't good looking? I doubt it!

888theGreat · Answer

All those women prefer sometimes subconciously. But if he is not good at sex or has small weenie , that might cause them to dump him.

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

None of em  i know guys with all three who have no game at all when it comes to women  whats most important is how you make her feel

Giddyup · Answer

I don't even need to vote, because you already answered it in your post.

SUMAIREBRAHIM · Answer

Girls prefer hypergamy they prefer taller than her, smarter than her, more competent then her n richer than her (equal or above preferably) they want to look up to the guy

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Good looks probably hooks the most, height and money keeps ‘em around.

Lookingforthetruth · Answer

Height is part of looks when it comes to women, you should really have 3 categories: 1. Status 2. Money 3. Looks

tunoo · Answer

It's Appearance > Personality > Money for both sexes, but women lie more about it

normalice · Answer

Not being a narcissist.

Bitterness · Answer

Good look and personality.

Chthou95 · Answer

The Trinity. Looks, money and status

catarecute · Answer

personality

clampfan101 · Answer

Personality.

SeaStorm1 · Answer

none for me

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