Should I reach out to this girl or not , we meet randomly?

[Anonymous]

i meet her at this bar on Friday night a week ago well almost 2 weeks now , it was kind of random but felt like we both wanted to meet that night and we did a shot together at the bar.

i had actually seen her online before so i can find her social media if i wanted to but never like tried to add her yet. also the bar we meet at is a couple hours away , i had been in that city that weekend and so she lives there

feel like i don't have anything to lose by sending her a request but she might wonder how i found her online

[Iron_Man]

Yes, why did you take two weeks

[Asker]

didn't want to seem too desperate and she's far away anyways so no chance of seeing her rate away anyways

[Iron_Man]

That’s a long time in a way you better call her tomorrow

[Iron_Man]

I mean, that’s a long time anyway

[Asker]

true but i don't think she had any expectations at the time and she's far away from me

[Asker]

things at bars can drag on longer than you realise , i've had girls re appear the next summer and still want my attention. this one girl rejected me the summer of 2022 when i asked for her number but she like reappeared this may and wanted me to notice her at the same bar we saw each other at the past summer although i still don't have her # , she did let me follow her on insta though but we never talk

[Iron_Man]

What will you do? I said call her.