Do you need your partner to make you laugh?

[Monalisa77]

Is this important to you? It is to me

[Anonymous]

No I don’t. Women usually aren’t as funny as men. Most men can make themselves laugh. I can watch YouTube for hours just laughing. I don’t feel alone, lonely, etc. If I met someone who was funny as shit great that’s a bonus but again women usually aren’t as funny as men. Look at comedians. No real funny female comedians.

[Monalisa77]

I wouldn't want a partner being on YouTube all day to get a laugh, i think im funny sometimes but you can enjoy the same hobbies together to find fun and laughter without the people being great comedians

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t sit on YouTube all day. Im just making a point. Thinking you’re funny isn’t the same as actually being funny but I’ll take your word for it as I don’t know you.

[Monalisa77]

Yeh it depends what mood im in, im more sarcastic funny.. Today, my niece and nephew kept jumping on each other and licking each other, i got told off for saying its boredelining incest, but i thought that was a funny comment as its not my fault they were behaving like couples do😂

[Opinion Owner]

But people don’t like sarcastic people who are trying to be funny. I can understand that. I came from the military so a lot of the shit we said would be borderline everything. But unless you’re around other military personnel, maybe prison guards, police officers, most people are going to look at you like wtf is wrong w you. Who told you off?

[Monalisa77]

My brother, if they didn't have clothes on it would be, that's just who i am and it was funny in my head. I've been told i make people laugh before, its one of my good traits i think i have and why people seem to like me, but just not enough to either want tod ate or hang our with me

[Monalisa77]

Plus theyve got a nutter of a mother, who knows what she says to them. She might be saying certain things either to them or what they overhear and not realize they shouldn't act like that with each other.

[Opinion Owner]

So you don’t have a man right now?

[Monalisa77]

No I've never dated but there's currently someone flirting with me and I've no idea why. Itll be interesting to see why he suddenly sees me in this way if he's genuine😂

[Opinion Owner]

So by what you said you make it sound as though there’s something wrong w you. Like why would he be interested. No kids? Never married?

[Monalisa77]

Ye I've got issues, u mean y he wouldn't be? he's a dr n a footballer could prob get loads of women

[Opinion Owner]

I see. But just cause someone can can a load of this or that doesn’t mean they want to. You mind if I ask what kind of issues?

[Monalisa77]

Its all over my profile ur the 2nd person I've had this q this week😂 lol sorry, maybe i should put it on my main Profile

[Opinion Owner]

So why the anxiety? I think I’m pretty functional lol work, do a lot of things. Love to laugh. Can get mad at times but usually over things I’m tired of

[Monalisa77]

Long road of needing a lot of help and some people having no patience with me aswell. As being bullied most of my life. Even my Brother says i need make up to get a guy

[Opinion Owner]

But that’s your brother boys say shit like that to their sisters. So throughout your entire life you’ve never had a partner?

[Monalisa77]

He knows I've got low self esteem, no never been on a date. Too shy to even talk to guys. I got more interested as a kid/teenager than I've had as an adult

[Opinion Owner]

I see. So do you think you could hold down a relationship if you got into one?

[Monalisa77]

Depends on the guy, but then i couldnt hold down a job so who knows lol

[Opinion Owner]

Ok. So what do you do for a living? Living w your brother?

[Monalisa77]

Nah he lives in another country he's over for the holidays, im in the middle of applying for jobs, taking courses n trying to get some confidence back. I dont need to work but i do have ambition

[Opinion Owner]

So I take it you’re not in the states?

[Monalisa77]

Nah, UK

[Opinion Owner]

Well not that it matters but I’m in the states. So if you had to describe yourself what would you say?

[Monalisa77]

Rn im ill, im probably ill 90% of the time😂 ill reply properly tomorrow

[Fireguy17]

Yes, you can get further in life if you can make people laugh.
Think of all of the money people spend on watching comedians.

[Yannae]

Quite important, not about being funny. Just bringing me joy in general.

[kylee2437]

Absolutely; the weirder and goofier my SO is , the better.

[shades777]

i can make myself laugh, also i dont want to make anyone do anything, if you can't do it on your own get away from me

[Monalisa77]

Wouldn't wanna b. NEar someone like u anyway😂

[shades777]

good riddance

[Anonymous]

No. But it's kind of important she has a sense of humor. I can't imagine a woman with a sense of humor that's not capable of telling a joke though.

[Sonorous]

Nah. They just gotta be hot & nice.

[Sonorous]

I'm a simple guy

[Massageman]

No - just an episode of Frasier.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Great bonus if she's funny.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

But it's not a need but a want for me.

[BLP11520]

It helps because she knows me

[Lokiion]

Yes it is

[jahaims]

Nah.

[Luckycharms12]

Big plus for sure.

[eagle1951]

i wish