The time it takes to learn enough about a person to be able to either trust them, or catch them being fake, is too long, is there a way to shorten it?

[Anonymous]

It takes a few years to really get to know a person. Why isn't anyone attempting to figure out a way to speed that up without cutting corners on effectiveness?

[Monalisa77]

This is xwhy i resort to snooping online. Best way to catch out the fakes

[Asker]

What do you mean by "snooping online"? why would the internet be able to tell me if she's being fake about her personality, promises, interests, hobbies, etc?

[Monalisa77]

Flirting with loads of girls, the way they reply to people, if they start random arguments. U can pretty much search anyone down n see how they behave if theyre online

[Monalisa77]

I had this co worker seem friendly but she made some bitchy comments n this other girl was so nice but both bitchy as hell online, guys I've thought were nice sending me abusive msgs.

[Asker]

Oh, I don't use social media.

[Monalisa77]

I would quit but its a handy tool n u can search Google too

[Asker]

I still don't quite grasp how you are searching for anything about them via social media or google. Unless a person is famous they usually don't appear in search results, and even then its not like you are reading their daily messages or spying on them, its just stuff like life acomplishments or credits to things they've acomplished.

What secret method are you using to find out anything relevant?

[Monalisa77]

Its easy, the last guy i liked after i lost my job i found out so much about him that i scared myself i was borderline stalking him, i can dm u with how tomorrow if u want

[Asker]

Followed you because until you acceot it and follow back I can't dm you. At the very least I'll hopefully end up less confused as to what you mean.

[Asker]

accept*

[Monalisa77]

Lol ill do it tomorrow as its 2am here

[Asker]

Ah ok, that works, gnight, and thank you.

[Anonymous]

Yeah tell them no nudes and no sex before getting married... Sorry that is a way to catch a fake guy!

Girls can be fake for years!

[Asker]

I'm usually the one who has to say no sex before marriage.

[Opinion Owner]

Good tell her

[Asker]

Gotta find her first.

[Asker]

Unfortunately I mostly attract women who want in my pants immediately.

[Opinion Owner]

Then snoop online

[Asker]

Everyone keeps saying to do that, and I'm just left scratching my head as to what that even means.

[Anonymous]

No, not in my opinion. So try to be patient.