Girls, Hi, do you think I will have a partner u am an introvert who is really nerdy and intelligent I have been bullied a lot?

[MustafaAl]

I like nature a lot and i am pretty quiet, I am repulsed by chaos,

I play games mainly COD

And have an intense focus on reading and learning right now i am learning coding languages and many other things but i am really shy and i think i have developed social anxiety because of my past. Ill be glad to see any responses

[_Maya_]

Yeah it is definitely possible. You just need to find someone with similar interests as you and a personality to match. That's the tough part of it since you are introverted and have social anxiety. Maybe you can find some people at school that have the same interests. I am assuming at your age you are in school since you said you are learning coding. Maybe there are some clubs or something you can get involved with. The important thing is to be patient and wait for the right girl. Don't force a relationship.

[MustafaAl]

Thanks a lot, I tried to do Omegles to desensitize myself from people but i end up still not doing it. Maybe the bullying reinforced my introverted behaviour so i overwhelmed its kind of like i am so anxious that sometimes im afraid about what other people think about me its really hard to explain and at first i thought i have schizophrenia but i dont have the symptoms yeah. But that only sometimes and i turn back to normal when im alone, Also i usually just didn't acknowledge my emotions for a long time.

[MustafaAl]

If its fine For you maybe you can send me a message and teach me something i will appreciate any knowledge.

[MustafaAl]

I can't send u message not allow me

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

“I am repulsed by chaos” “I mostly play games like COD”


You and I have a very different experience of that game if you don’t see it as constant, competitive chaos of people just trying to outdo one another. Mmo games always exhausted me.


But going back to your initial question, you’re not unlovable, I’m sure you have qualities good enough for someone to fall in love with you but reveling and dwelling in your insecurity won’t help you so maybe get more comfortable taking initiative and making the first move, learn how to smile and talk to people, make friends and all that. As you grow more comfortable socializing, you’ll get to a place where it’s easier to attract a girlfriend.

[MustafaAl]

Hi thanks for your response, I appreciate it as of now i am still extremely shy because of my past but i hope i can for myself.

[HelpfulWoman]

Yes.

If anything, you're less of a "unique" being then you think you are.

[Nikki1989]

Anything is possible. It is up to you to make it happen.

[MustafaAl]

Thanks for your response, may god bless you and your family