Saturday nights are so hard when you're single or in a ldr? Anyone else agree?

[Simslover92]

[Andres77]

If the relationship is solid then being alone might suck but it’s not hard. The value of the relationship eliminates any other needs or wants.

[Simslover92]

That's very true.

[SunnyRS]

I agree some days it feels like it.
When you have the whole day to yourself that can happen. I feel that way too on some Saturdays.

[Simslover92]

Yeah. It's only the Saturdays I go down there to see him or he comes up that I really feel content. I know that only means I need more hobbies but I wouldn't know where to start.

[SunnyRS]

Start with anything you like, that's what I do.
Singing, writing anything

[Simslover92]

Well I do already write. It's just lately I've been having a bit of writers block. Probably mostly due to my job being so stressful. But I will try to get over it and do that or find something else in the meantime.

[SunnyRS]

Try music, it always helps me reduce stress, as for your writer's block, try to bounce some ideas with the people you know are a bit creative, they might be able to help you.

[Simslover92]

Yeah my best friend is not the creative type. She's the only friend I have besides my boyfriend who is also not much of the creative type outside of music. But I will try music! Thanks!

[SunnyRS]

You are most welcome

[SunnyRS]

Thank you for the MHO luv

[Simslover92]

You're welcome!

[Mansearching]

I know what you mean. Maybe not in same boat but in boat next to ya. girlfriend works on Saturdays. Doesn't really feel like going out after. Only days off she has is days I work. Still hard to see each other even living in same town. She has grandkids that she watches also. I'm not going to get in between or make her choose. I'll loose every time.

I do go out by myself. I have a few and come home. I have befriended some of people at bar so I am kept entertained. They know my girlfriend. They enjoy her too.

But it does suck not having your s/o by you or not seeing them everyday.

[Simslover92]

That sucks that you can't really see her on Saturdays or really on days off either. It definitely does indeed suck not having your s/o by you or not seeing them everyday!

[Mansearching]

I wished we lived together. So much easier financially and personally.

[Simslover92]

Yes same for me and him.

[YesterdaysChild]

LDR's are the worse because you can't do anything spontaneous, like going out for a pizza or Chinese. At least when you are single you can still go out.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/0O8m0mMDpHw

[Simslover92]

That's true. 🤷‍♀️

[Iron_Man]

Go out alone 😔

[Simslover92]

I would but I'm not a go out alone type of person. I prefer to go out with friends but the only friend I have is always at work on Saturdays.

[Iron_Man]

I’m not either when are you guys going to meet in person?

[Iron_Man]

I meant going out alone sucks that’s what I meant

[Simslover92]

We've met in person many times. And oh ok yeah it does suck majorly.

[Iron_Man]

Good

[Nikki1989]

Yes, but that is why you don't fall into that trap.

[Simslover92]

True but I couldn't help myself. It just kind of happened.

[exitseven]

Yes, it sure was tough. I did it for over 3 years. I would never do it again.

[Simslover92]

I'm sorry.

[exitseven]

I try to think that it made me appreciate the relationship I finally got.

[Iron_Man]

Talk to your long-distance boyfriend on a Saturday night while you’re out

[Simslover92]

Can't because he's usually at the bar.

[Iron_Man]

It doesn’t matter if he’s got a cell phone he can text you or call you

[Fireguy17]

Nope, I work some Saturdays, and I always found stuff to keep me occupied.

[Anonymous]

I'm single by choice n Saturday night is my hook-up night so I love Saturday ❤️

[Simslover92]

Lol good for you. I try to have that at least once a month with my boyfriend 😉

[Jmmmfi4]

DEFINITELY CAN BE

[jahaims]

That's what friends and hobbies are for

[Simslover92]

I only have one friend and she's always busy these days with work. And I don't really know where to start with the hobbies.

[jahaims]

Find interests then. Saturdays are hard for you because you are a boring person.

[Anonymous]

Nope.

[Simslover92]

Oh ok

[Opinion Owner]

You just got to remind yourself of all of what's out there. When you realize most of the opposite gender is very unpleasant and will only wreak havoc in your life, then you realize most of what you're missing out on is negativity. Look at things more practical and less romantically. Due that, and it won't be that hard at all.

[Simslover92]

Ok I can do that! Thanks!