Why does a boy stays silent when a girl texts him a lot? He sees the messages but never replied. What's the purpose of seeing and staying silent?

[Anonymous]

[Vegasrunner]

Woman are attracted to men who's intentions are unclear by staying silent he gets the best reaction for him from you.

[Asker]

Isn't it manipulative?

[Vegasrunner]

@asker It could be considered manipulative, however women are how they are, so I doubt you'll be able to change their behavior. Of a man wants to be successful he needs to recognize that woman will be manipulative, and how to deal with that.

[Wise4myage]

He's either super shy, or just not into you.

[Asker]

If he's not into me, can't he tell me directly about it?

[Wise4myage]

That makes sense, but if he's really shy then I doubt he would do it.

[LazerBean]

He's not into you

[BigDog1989]

or, he's not a big texter/busy etc..

If he hasn't said anything, never assume

[LazerBean]

Lol if he's not into you enough to text back, he's not into you.

[BigDog1989]

Lots of people can be interested, but not text.

Did you know texting was invented originally for the deaf

[LazerBean]

That sounds as appealing and convincing as the guy who is interested but won't approach.

[BigDog1989]

I didn't kiss the girl i like for 10 years. She had to tease me about it, just for me to do it. But at least i finally did it, right?

[Asker]

@lazerbean it's true that men can be interested and still not text back. But it's not the reason that he is busy but he is manipulating a girl till she says what he wants her to say (that she loves him or something similar to that). Girls usually doesn't say a guy that that love them as they need to take time and they put them in situationship but those guys starts manipulating girls till she accepts their love or tells them that she loves them back

[BigDog1989]

The girl i like, said i love you first. I've never said it back

[LazerBean]

And are y'all married after 10 years or is the relationship still nowhere? 99% of the time if a man doesn't text back or if he does short replies, that's his way of conveying that he isn't interested. And I haven't seen that the other 1% of the time is worth much more.

[BigDog1989]

Eh, like i said, he could just not be big texter or busy or something.

You wouldn't want to be bothered about it, if you were busy, or weren't a big texter, right?

Well, im not married, to her, because I DONT WANT MARRIAGE OR KIDS, she doesn't either

[LazerBean]

I'm not a big texter, but I am for someone I'm interested in. And that is the case for the vast majority of people who are not big texters. And that's a yes on the waste of time

[BigDog1989]

I'm a big texter. I will always text back someone I'm interested in. But, at certain times, I do get busy, or I forget, or something along that line. It happens

[Asker]

@BigDog1989 That's the reason why girls dump guys who doesn't text them back. They don't want to deal with guys who aren't big texters because they are the ones who doesn't have the capability to love a girl fully and they half love her and expect full efforts from her. We girls are worth more than half love or to be with an inconsistent guy who manipulates or plays with a girl knowing it can make her overthink about his silence

[BigDog1989]

If you base a relationship on how much we're texting you, you're going to be single for a LONG time

Texting was originally created for the deaf, not us

[Asker]

@BigDog1989 even though we are single for a long time we don't stress as much as the girls who are in relationship with half loving guys. Girls need full love or no love. Yeah, texting back can interpret how much a person values us. If he loves us but doesn't value us, we don't need his love. Texting isn't only for deaf. It's for all humans who have a sense of understanding through their mind and hands with a heart to feel the content and text back with whatever the reply should be given. There can be two replies to a question. Yes or No. There can be two responses to a statement mentioning if he's interested or not. Text read doesn't count towards the effort that a person is putting in a relationship. If he have mind, hands and heart functioning correctly, he will respond. If he doesn't respond then something could be fault with his mind, hands or heart

[BigDog1989]

You're putting wayyyyyy too much emphasis on texting. You do know people dated/existed before texting, right?
Sometimes I think technology has hampered our ability to actually DATE, not just TEXT

I think you need to lay off the texting a bit hun. GO OUT