Have you ever had someone obsessively crush on you or crushed obsessively on someone yourself?

[Anonymous]

How did it end?

[Anonymous]

I don’t think I’ve ever begged a man for his attention or been obsessed with him. If that ever happens, bury me.


On the other hand, I’ve only had 2 people been very… weird.


First one (2019) was my ex who cheated on me, and he would drop by EVERY TIME. My family still loved him regardless of our breakup, and he would just come hang out with them. Obviously to fuck with me. He would kill someone if I asked him to. I told him to F off a few months after our breakup because I was disinterested and dating someone else. Last time I heard from him was earlier this year when he pretended he didn’t know who I was… I’ll post receipts for you nosy people.


ANOTHER time, that same fucking year, 2019-2020, this guy from my job was obsessed with me. We dated for a literal month or less but he made my life hell. He begged over text, and started talking bad about me to coworkers even though I legit hadn’t talked to him in four months at that point.


Men be crazy.

[Asker]

Why did he cheat on you if he was so crazy about you?

[Opinion Owner]

Idek girl. He cheated by sending another girl nudes.

[Opinion Owner]

Like the last time we met in person was in 2022 and he last messaged me in 2023. Tell me why when we went out to eat (to rekindle a friendship) he had video we had made in 2019 and still had my house key.

[Asker]

He still loves you but wants validation from other women?

[Opinion Owner]

I doubt he still loves me.

[Asker]

Why?

[Nikki1989]

Maybe, maybe not. I take no notice of most people in that way.

[Tharithi]

Why? Are u obsessively crushing on someone?

[Asker]

yes, he likes me back and he is known to develop obsessive crushes on girls...

[Tharithi]

So u aren’t the only one. Seems he has issues

[Asker]

so do I. i think we would be either terrible or perfect for each other because I understand him better than anyone

[Tharithi]

U don’t understand him. U are weird

[Tharithi]

Why do u like him so much

[Asker]

yes I do understand him.

[Tharithi]

U don’t because u barely talked.

[Tharithi]

U are just reflecting your insecurities

[Asker]

Maybe you are not a good observer

[Tharithi]

Observer? 🤣. Damn u are just revealing more about yourself. Not him

[Tharithi]

Why do u like him again

[Anonymous]

I wish, lol.