Which screams a bigger red flag finding out the person you're dating is a virgin or thathe never had a relationship?

[thedumb1XD]

Do these things matter the older you're? Do women look at you differently?

[wiltingrosepetal]

I'm dating a virgin, it really wasn't a big deal to me when he revealed that fact to me. If anything, it makes me feel kind of powerful, knowing he'll look back on his time with me as a series of firsts.
However, never dating is a bit of a yikes. Not a red flag but still a little strange

[thedumb1XD]

Why is not dating anyone a big red flag? How is that bad?

[wiltingrosepetal]

It poses the question of 'why am I the first person to date you?' and more directly, 'what's the issue with you that turned every other person away?'. It's those two questions that would run through my mind

[wiltingrosepetal]

But it's not a big deal. Like i said, not a red flag, but it would surprise me if I were to meet a person like that irl

[thedumb1XD]

More like most girls ghost me after a first date, and never dated to insecurities. At this point I don't think I will date till anyone 30's

[Billlewis]

I just started following you and I'd like to invite you to follow me as well if you want.

[wiltingrosepetal]

Oh to be honest, I had an old account on here for twoish years and never followed anyone. Kinda up to keep that trend now lol

[boggboss]

wouldn't say either is a red flag

[thedumb1XD]

I don't know I'm about to be 29 in a couple of months amd still haven't dated anyone 🙃

[boggboss]

Just shows u either had issues before or was crazy strict on rules

[thedumb1XD]

Most likely issues but I talk less to girl's but I feel happier and more at peace being single?

[boggboss]

Then good for u but at that point why do u care for a relationship

[thedumb1XD]

Probably because I know that eventually I would feel lonely and being in my 30's alone is way sadder than you think?

[boggboss]

But if u feel more at peace single how will a relationship work

[thedumb1XD]

No clue that why I want to try one before it's too late

[LazerBean]

Both of those were preferred, one was required

[Simslover92]

Neither are red flags to me.